Let me tell you something: no one can copy paste because they didn’t live it.
I found my purpose to serve GOD Thursday 22nd August 2013, founding the motivational movement.
Over the years, from my days of daily motivation in 2013 (for over two years), to founding Leadership* podcast in 2019, 2021 Hosted an all day online personal development event with over 11 leaders.
In 2024 founding a Personal development group, I built a supportive community and a team via network/affiliate marketing.
I have never let my circumstances make me lose focus on the vision. I did everything in my power to lead my team, coach them, and mentor them to step into leadership too.
Because I’ve experienced poor leadership and guidance people who, once they get their money or promotion, disappear.
I paid 4 figures to my upline, who happened to be a millionaire mentor already in the company something I should have never had to do.
I’ve been homeless five times.
The first time, I was just 16 years old.
I left home with nothing but a dream, a fire in my chest to be my own boss, to live free, to create something real.
But life had other plans.
The second time, I was sleeping on the floor in a church refuge in North London, hundreds of men crammed together surprisingly, none of them spoke English.
It felt like a third-world camp.
Two dirty, mouldy shower cubicles for everyone to use each person only supposed to use them for five minutes.
Violence was normal toward those of us who sought shelter and food.
A small group believed if we were associated with the pastor who they thought was turning a blind eye or even responsible for horrors back in his home country, people would target us to get to him.
Some weren’t as fortunate. Two of them ended up beaten so badly, they had to be taken to hospital.
Every day was about surviving.
If you didn’t make it back on time, the church doors would be locked and double-bolted shut.
I still had a job as an adult support worker that happened to be in West London, Wembley.
So not only did I have to wake up early despite the conditions, I had to look professional.
I had to finish on time and commute via local transport back before the doors closed.
Thank God no one set fire to the building while we were sleeping.
The third time, I was living out of my car.
The fourth time, I didn’t even have a car.
That was one of the darkest seasons of my life. But somehow, I still had faith and belief in God and closed my first high-ticket client, making a four-figure sum in five minutes, despite being homeless.
The fifth time, I was travelling on night buses, doing my best to avoid sleeping while drawing up a plan to get myself back on my feet.
I found myself sleeping at Heathrow Airport on the arrivals chairs, just trying to stay warm, stay safe, stay invisible and connected to the online space.
And it was at Heathrow October 2024 where I looked at my life and said, This is not how my story ends.
Through it all, my faith in God grew stronger than ever.
If it wasn’t for God, I wouldn’t be here.
I mean that.
But the pain didn’t end there.
There are times when I feel empty like if today was my last, would anyone notice I was gone?
My mother stopped talking to me over ten years ago. She believed I was in communication with her side of the family.
It’s all because of different religious beliefs.
That’s exactly why I don’t follow any religion, but I absolutely believe in God.
My father?
He’s only really been present in my life four significant times.
The last time?
It was to meet my third-born child and her mother.
The one person my uncle I never called "Dad" out of respect for my absent father, passed away a few months ago.
That pain was unimaginable. I still can’t face the reality he’s no longer here.
Less than a few months before he died, we spent over an hour chatting on video call. He had retired back home to Mauritius.
We talked and laughed about everything including health and my children.
He told me to look after my health and said he was much healthier.
That I had nothing to worry about.
He looked forward to seeing me in Mauritius so he could show my family and me a great time, taking us around the island.
And what most people don’t know?
I’m public, yes…
But I only show a fraction of my actual life.
One of my most meaningful roles?
Working as a father support worker July 2010, fighting for men who had done nothing wrong yet were blocked from seeing their children.
Speaking and providing services for fathers who were being erased from their children’s lives by systems that rarely value fatherhood.
Children need their fathers.
And me and other men stood in that gap when no one else would.
I’ve worked jobs. I’ve earned good money.
But let me be real with you, a job will never pay you your real worth.
Because your time and your health?
Those are priceless.
And without time, freedom, or good health what’s the point of wealth?
Still, I kept going.
Why?
Because of my three children.
Two of them, I haven’t seen since they were toddlers.
And now I’m a grandfather.
Still here.
Still breathing.
And I’ve got a burning desire to be an example for the ones who’ve lost hope…
To fulfil my dream of reuniting my broken family…
To lead.
And I know I’m not alone.
Let’s talk about what people don’t say in this online game…
Most people who start an online business or service have the right heart but the wrong expectations.
They think success comes fast if you just hustle.
But here’s the truth…
You’ll face people who show interest but never take action.
You’ll spend hours on calls that go nowhere.
You’ll invest in webinars that overpromise and underdeliver.
You’ll pour money into ads and see zero return.
You’ll miss time with your family, your children growing up, your partner drifting away.
Friendships break.
Sleep disappears.
The bills stack up.
Credit cards get maxed out.
And still, you wake up and keep showing up.
Because there’s something in you that refuses to quit.
But listen to me closely now:
You don’t have to do it alone.
So
I’ll ask you straight:
How much longer are you going to keep doing it by yourself?
Share your story
Because if I can rise from all that…
So can you.