February 1st, 2026 brings the Snow Moon a moon of stillness, endurance, and quiet truth. This is a lunar moment that doesn’t ask for manifestation lists or loud intention-setting. It asks for honesty. For reflection. For the courage to stand in the cold with what is real. Under this moon, Hekate’s presence is subtle but strong. She moves through silence, through shadows, through the spaces where clarity hasn’t fully formed yet. Working with her tonight isn’t about asking for answers, it’s about acknowledging where you are standing. The Snow Moon is about survival and wisdom earned through winter. To work with Hekate beneath it, begin by slowing down. Dim the lights. Light a single candle or sit beneath the moonlight if you can. Speak less. Listen more. Let yourself feel what you’ve been avoiding naming. This is a powerful night to release old paths that no longer sustain you, to thank them, and to let them go without drama. Hekate honors clean endings, firm boundaries, and choices made from self-respect rather than fear. Offer her your presence, your awareness, your willingness to stand at the crossroads without rushing forward. You don’t need elaborate tools your intuition is enough. Ask only for guidance in seeing clearly, not in being spared discomfort. The Snow Moon reminds us that growth doesn’t always look like blooming. Sometimes it looks like resting roots deep in frozen ground, trusting that when the thaw comes, you will know exactly where to go. Tonight, walk with Hekate quietly. Let the moon witness your becoming.

I went to a group networking/tarot event tonight that I'd never been to before and the host mentioned out of the 14 people there, she had only recognized two people on the list since it was a new crowd as she had targeted business owners. Immediately she was drawn to my energy, mentioning it was the strongest in the room which was great to hear, I won't lie, I felt powerful lol. But she was doing a collective tarot card reading and a lot of the messaging was directed to me. She said there was an incredibly strong voice feeding her messages - a deceased man that was urgently trying to get messages to me. And it was all wildly accurate. Prior to the event I said to myself that I wouldn't allow myself to get scammed into anything fishy, but there was no catch, no payment involved, just very accurate messages that no one in the room could have known. Long story short, I'm looking for reliable sources for where I can decode what she was relaying to me, and I also need some help in connecting with whoever was trying to connect with me. I have an idea of who it was, but since moving from the southern to the northern hemisphere, I have lost my touch with most of my spiritual and connection to the land and I would love some reliable help on how to get that back. For reference, I used to be very intuitive and in tune with hearing messages, seeing light & colour activity, and connection to animals and plants. I would appreciate any help anyone can offer! ♥️

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Most people say they want to heal. What they often mean is that they want relief. They want the anxiety to quiet down, the heartbreak to stop aching, the triggers to disappear. But shadow work is not relief. It is confrontation. Shadow work is not about candles, journals, or the aesthetic of darkness. It is not about calling yourself “evolved” because you can name your trauma. It is about taking responsibility for the parts of you that hurt others while you were busy surviving. It begins with a difficult truth: you are not just the wounded one. You are also the one who adapted. The version of you that shuts down instead of communicating did not appear out of nowhere. That was a strategy. The version of you that controls conversations, tests loyalty, withholds affection, or leaves before you can be left those were not flaws. They were armor. At some point in your life, those behaviors kept you safe. They protected you from rejection, humiliation, abandonment, chaos. But survival strategies, when left unexamined, become self-sabotage. Your trauma explains your patterns. It does not excuse them. That is where real shadow work begins. Not in blaming your past. Not in endlessly dissecting what was done to you. But in asking yourself how you are now participating in your own suffering. The shadow is not evil. It is unintegrated. It is the part of you that learned distorted lessons in order to cope. Your jealousy may be unspoken desire. Your anger may be violated boundaries that were never defended. Your need for control may be fear of unpredictability. Your detachment may be grief that never had language. When you refuse to look at these parts, they operate unconsciously. They choose your partners. They repeat the same relational dynamic in different faces. They sabotage intimacy just as it begins to feel real. And because they are hidden, you will swear it is fate, bad luck, or “just the way things are.” But the moment you bring awareness to them, everything changes.