Dating can feel like a slog. You put yourself out there… You have the same conversations… You wonder if it’s even worth the effort. And at some point, many people quietly opt out. Not because they don’t want connection — but because the process feels draining. That’s exactly why I created this event: The Spring Mix and Mingle is a structured, small-group experience where you get to meet multiple people over Zoom. Check out details on the meetup.com page. If you are already a member of one of my groups, you can find out more on one of these event pages: - Real Talk for Singles 50+ - Spring Mix and Mingle - Reboot Your Love Life for 50+ - Spring Mix and Mingle TO PARTICIPATE: 👉 Complete the application form and pay the registration fee via meetup.com. Zoom details will be sent 24 hours before the event. Just as important—You’re in a target-rich environment: - People in your age range - People who chose to be there - People who are actually open to meeting someone Whether that leads to friendship, meaningful connection, or something more—you are bound to have fun. - 2–4 people per room. - Guided prompts. - Rotations. - Simple. Human. Real. No guarantees of chemistry. But a much better environment for connection. PS. We already have about 40 people registered and a great group forming. To create a balanced experience, we’d especially love to welcome a few more men 50+ to join us. Feel free to invite friends! —Dessi

SAVE THE DATE: APRIL 7th 6 PM EDT Hey everyone, The community voted for this… so we’re doing it. I’m hosting our first Spring Mix & Mingle (50+) — Virtual Pilot Event, and I want to invite you personally. This isn’t another app. It's not speed dating either. It’s a small, structured experience where you’ll actually talk to people in breakout rooms of 3–4, with guided prompts, and enough rotation to meet a variety of people without it feeling overwhelming. Simple. Human. Real. A few things to know: • Camera on (this matters) • Desktop or laptop preferred • You’ll receive a match list after the event if you want to continue any conversations And because I want to keep this intentional, everyone needs to complete a short application first. 👉APPLY HERE One more thing— There are no guarantees here. Not of chemistry, not of outcomes. But it is a different way to make new connections. Why not try it out? —Dessi

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