Online dating isn’t working for most people because there’s no strategy they stick to. Here’s the formula: First, don’t swipe impulsively—only people you’d say yes to today. Keep 3–5 conversations max. Each message has a question; if they don’t respond, move on. Ask for a date quickly—no overthinking. Offer times, set the place, and meet. Stick with this for 90 days, and you’ll change the game. + You can check in with us weekly for live help.

We will post tomorrow when we will redo. It could be tomorrow or Thursday.

What apps is everyone using? Please list the app, age range, the city you date in and what apps you feel have been most successful.

One podcast I listen to regularly for dating advice is Love Strategies. They dig into the science of relationships and attraction. They created an online quiz you can take to determine your attraction archetype. Attractiontype.com Turns out I’m a romantic.

A matchmaker that we know in San Diego is hosting a Valentine's event at the San Diego Museum of Art on Thursday, February 12 - she has a waitlist for women but needs more men to attend! 30's-60's Use the link below! Tell them we sent you ;) https://art-and-attraction.eventbrite.com