Online dating isn’t working for most people because there’s no strategy they stick to. Here’s the formula: First, don’t swipe impulsively—only people you’d say yes to today. Keep 3–5 conversations max. Each message has a question; if they don’t respond, move on. Ask for a date quickly—no overthinking. Offer times, set the place, and meet. Stick with this for 90 days, and you’ll change the game. + You can check in with us weekly for live help.

We will post tomorrow when we will redo. It could be tomorrow or Thursday.

What apps is everyone using? Please list the app, age range, the city you date in and what apps you feel have been most successful.