One of the bravest things we can do on our sexual–emotional journey is to speak our desires out loud — first to ourselves, and then with another person we trust. So many of us grew up being taught to: - suppress desire - fear rejection - avoid saying the “wrong” thing - play it cool instead of being real But in the Dao of Love, desire is not a flaw — it’s a compass.It’s how our body and heart communicate what brings us alive. When we acknowledge what we want, a few powerful things happen: 💛 We deepen intimacy with ourselves 💬 We strengthen communication and honesty with others 🔥 We learn to hold our needs without shame or apology 🌱 We grow our capacity for healthy connection and pleasure Being vulnerable doesn’t mean demanding, clinging, or expecting.It simply means telling the truth of your heart with openness. “This is what I feel.This is what I want.I’m willing to share it — even if the answer is no.” That is courage.That is emotional alchemy. As you continue your journey here, I invite you to practice: - checking in with what you truly want - speaking that desire clearly and compassionately - witnessing how good it feels to honor your own truth ✨ Real intimacy starts with honesty. ✨ Real connection grows from vulnerability. ✨ Our desires are doorways — let’s walk through them together. If you feel called, share something you are learning to want or ask for — not the whole story, not anything uncomfortable — just one true desire you’d like to give voice to. ❤️‍🔥 We see you.We celebrate your courage.The Dao of Love is a safe place to be real.

Join the Dao of Love — my free community for anyone who wants to bring more happiness, pleasure, and vitality into their life. Inside the Dao of Love, you’ll find a growing space for sexual and emotional healing through modern Daoist and Dao-Tantric practices. It’s completely free to join, and you’ll get immediate access to: ✨ A full Qigong class for grounding, energy flow, and stress relief ✨ A Personal Sexual Inventory to help you explore your desires, boundaries, and growth edges ✨ An open forum to discuss sexual vitality, emotional healing, and embodied pleasure ✨ A warm and supportive community of people on the same path For those wanting deeper training, there are paid courses on Dao-Tantric sexual reflexology, emotional alchemy, multi-orgasmic cultivation, and more — but the core community and foundational tools are always free. If you’re looking to reconnect with your body, open your energy, expand your capacity for pleasure, and explore sexuality in a healthy, grounded way… come join us. https://www.skool.com/dao-of-love-sexual-alchemy-4192/about?ref=9e63468d8bb04a0f88b41c830c18ee80 Your journey into the Dao of Love begins here.✨

I’m so glad you’re here. This space is dedicated to exploring sexual vitality, emotional growth, and embodied pleasure through a modern approach to Daoist practice. Whether you’re interested in multi-orgasmic cultivation, qigong, sexual reflexology, emotional alchemy, or simply creating a healthier relationship with your own energy — you’re in the right place. To help you get started, don’t forget to visit the Classroom tab. You’ll find two powerful free resources there: a full Qigong class to help you ground your energy and reconnect with your body, and a Personal Sexual Inventory to help you clarify your desires, boundaries, and growth edges. Both are simple, transformative tools that set a strong foundation for your journey here. And I’d love for you to introduce yourself so we can get to know you:• What drew you here?• What are your health, pleasure, or energetic goals right now?• Is there anything you’re hoping to learn, transform, or experience through the Dao of Love? This community thrives on curiosity, openness, and shared exploration. Feel free to be as honest or as simple as you’d like — every voice adds something meaningful. Welcome in. Your journey starts here. 🌹✨

Hey everyone — I just created a new Will, Want, Won’t List for your sexual and relational life! This is one of the most powerful tools for exploring boundaries and desires with clarity, safety, and curiosity. It helps you reflect on: - What you’re open to exploring (Will) - What you deeply desire or crave (Want) - What feels like a firm no for you (Won’t) You can make a copy of your own list at https://docs.google.com/document/d/1HqY1q1SYHVG58sLWCZvXtRZJnRJu7XRyYDY3wqizGKU/copy Using this list can deepen self-awareness, improve communication with partners, and bring more ease and confidence into your sexual expression. To get started, go to the classroom tab and find the course titled Will-Want-Won't Sexual Desires. Then just click the link, then select “Make a Copy” — you’ll instantly have your own customizable Google Doc to fill out privately or share with someone you trust. ✨ Take a few minutes to fill it in — you might be surprised what you discover about yourself. [Insert your Google Doc link here] Can’t wait to hear what insights come up for you in this practice. — Davey 🌿

Hey there and welcome to the Dao of Love community 🌿 I’m really glad you’re here. This space is about exploring how to bring more pleasure, vitality, and emotional depth into your life through Daoist cultivation and embodied practice. Before diving in, here’s how to get started and make the most of everything available to you: 🏮 1. Visit the Dao of Love Welcome Classroom Start by watching the Welcome video and intro materials.They’ll give you a clear sense of what this community is about, what to expect, and how to move through the courses at your own pace. 🗓️ 2. Add the Google Calendar Make sure you don’t miss any live sessions, group calls, or events.You can sync the Google Calendar linked in the classroom — that way, you’ll always have upcoming gatherings right at your fingertips. 💬 3. Connect With Your Peers This is a space for real connection and conversation.Jump into the Community Forum — introduce yourself, comment on posts, share reflections, or ask questions.You’ll get so much more out of this when you engage and connect. 🌬️ 4. Try the Free Qigong Practice There’s a free Qigong lesson in the classroom — it’s a great way to start moving energy through your body, grounding yourself, and awakening your vitality.This is foundational to all the deeper sexual and emotional alchemy work we do here. 🔥 5. Explore the Premium Classes Once you’re feeling grounded, check out the premium courses on sexual and emotional alchemy.These are where you’ll find the deeper teachings and guided practices that help you integrate pleasure, presence, and personal power into every part of your life. Take your time. Go at your own rhythm.This path isn’t about rushing — it’s about awareness, curiosity, and learning to feel more alive in your body and relationships. Welcome to the journey — and to the community. 💛 — Davey