Have you ever watched a child try to fix something during play? Not a big dramatic problem. Just the everyday kind. You know, the one where the block tower tumbles, the art project becomes a giant mess, or the game rule doesn’t feel fair anymore. This is usually the moment where we are often tempted to step in. I know I do, and not just with kids, it happens at work, too. Can anyone else relate? We think we see the solution. We think we know where the stronger chair should go or that the tower needs a wider base. We know how the rule could be adjusted in about five seconds. But if we jump in and solve things too quickly, we may accidentally remove the useful part for our kid or even for other adults. The useful part is the trying, adjusting, and trying again and that’s where I’m encouraging you to pay more attention to this week. I suggest encouraging failure, curiosity, and trying again. That’s we’re learning and play intersect. When they get frustrated, consider asking some gentle questions like: What did you try first? What changed? Did you listen to each other? Did you get frustrated and come back? Did you notice something you missed the first time? These little moments are easy to overlook, but they are where a lot of the learning lives. Enough “teaching” let’s put this into practice. As you go through your day, what did you notice? Did you change you approach? Let’s help each other. Oh, if you really want a deeper look, I found this video from Harvard’s Center on the Developing Child on how play supports problem-solving and other life skills. Check it out and let’s start a conversation about the power of play in your life.