My first post (lots here but looking forward to hearing your thoughts, all)
GM all! I am happy to be here. My name is Chris, and I am 35, have been married six years and have two children. We are hoping for more. My life is a testimony to God's mercy through life and death times, provision, disciplining and patience. Psalm 118:18: "The Lord has chastened me severely, but He has not given me over to death." I was a firefighter and a paramedic in my first career. It was the most intense and insane time of my life, and my life has been filled with insane and intense times. I have overcome a career ending back injury and multiple other major injuries. More importantly, I have overcome post traumatic of the level that for most is crippling for life, and I did so without meds. All by God's grace. Since 2020 I have built a strong network with solid Christian brothers, many of whom are entrepreneurs. After the fire service, I transferred my skills and was briefly a nurse. God closed that door in my face by the end of 2022. Truly it was the worst job I have ever had. So, I flipped a house and quit nursing and took a year to figure things out, network and work with a carpenter. Within three months of working with the carpenter I was estimating and bidding jobs more effectively than him, which blessed him. Then I worked 14 months for a roofer as his catch all right hand man: marketing, estimating, project management, repairs, material runs, etc. I talked business with him as much as I could (and also with the carpenter), and learned over 14 months twenty years of insider information. I also learned from the roofer what not to do, and he did most things wrong. I am going to write a book next year titled What not to do as a Roofing Contractor, and What to do Instead. Next winter I am also going to write a book titled Weaponized Recovery: Turning Systemic Betrayal and Personal Hardship into Unstoppable Entrepreneurial Fuel. In it I am going to describe the corruption and treachery I faced in the fire service and in nursing, the post traumatic, the major injuries I sustained, and how I overcame it all and have used it to fuel fatherhood, and entrepreneurialism. I have drafted both books, but I cannot in good conscience write them yet because I do not feel successful yet. I don't want to write these without proving my systems more thoroughly, though I have made some useful PTSD management strategies that are solid, and provide objective positive results.