I have a lot of people giving me unsolicited dating advice in the past week or so. A boomer gave me this advice. Being a millennial I had to research this, it's a Johnny Carver and Slick Rick song so it has a place in the zeitgeist. I get the gist of it, but how do you personally interpret this advice? And would you use it yourself?

Like not being married with a kid and all that. It seems like once you get over the age of 30, the gaslighting starts from people telling you to get married and have kids. Like the Playboy life is meant for you 20s and such. What gets me is that it isn't really the women pushing this as much as it is the men these days. On social media comment sections, it is primarily guys gaslighting other guys for living the Playboy life at an older age. I wonder what happened to men in general here but how does Michael deal with that hate?

Hey everyone. For the last 3-4 years I have been going through life pretty much alone just focusing on making money, training and getting my mindset right. As a counterpart I completely neglected social circle. I have a good network of high networth individuals I can do business with but no people I can go out with or do anything with in general. Im now 20 years old and its time to work on this. I’ve tried to give some people I met a chance but I always regret it. Most people my age are untrustworthy, unreliable or just not good for reputation. I see no reason to go out with them. Here in Switzerland there is a pandemic of Talahons (pictures attached) and I don’t want to have anything to do with that. Same thing with most girls. If you were in my place and had to build a social circle from 0 where would you go or what activities would you do to find high quality people.

I feel relatively confident in most social situations EXCEPT around pretty girls. Around them I just get needy. Even if I truly am just trying to be friends with her to boost my social circle, the neediness comes out subconsciously. I know neediness is probably THE fastest way to drive away girls and I can see it in myself when Im around them. I try to play it cool but it still leaks out. I talked to other guys and a few girls and they say I'm putting girls on a pedestal. I know I am doing this and am exuding neediness, but even though I know I'm still doing it! My strategy now is to: 1. try to desensitize myself and hope that by constant exposure to pretty girls will cure me of this. 2. talking to random strangers to erase my fear of rejection 3. record myself speaking on camera regularly Any suggestions on curing this neediness I am experiencing? Am I going about fixing it the right way?

My sister is like an 8/10. She has hundreds of simps always chasing after her. Anyway a few years ago she was dating this guy who was muscular, tall, charismatic, and with extremely good game. One afternoon I was eating lunch with her, her bf, and my grandma and then my grandma started flirting with my sister's bf. My sister got so mad and immediately became 3x more clingy with him. Keep in mind, my grandma was 82 years old at the time. I had to give it my all to keep from laughing it was so weird 😂 .