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Which One Are You?
Good morning ladies and gentlemen, As many of us know, and some are finding out on this journey, that you will find yourself in a situation that either people will be looking to you for directions, or instructions, or to make a decisions, based on who they perceive you to be. This is not uncommon when it comes to dressing, caring yourself in a manner that as ladies and gentlemen people look up to. Too many, they think that they are up to the task , which is great to be in the mindset of being that goto person. But as I have said before and quoted this “ with great power comes great responsibility”. Meaning that when you take on that persona of being that goto person, you need to understand and be ready to stand in that role. Some are wandering what is the big deal about that? Here is the deal, there are two type of people Peacekeepers, and Peacemakers. Now to many they are semantics, just a play on words that generally mean the same thing. This is further from the truth. They are really different in nature. See You cannot be a Peacekeeper and a leader, but you can be a Peacemaker and a leader. I know, some are saying that is not true, but it is really true. See as a peacekeeper, these are the ones that like to keep the peace and will go with the flow to make everyone happy. They will compromise, to make everyone happy even ft it is wrong. Now a peacemaker knows that what they say or do is not always going to be in agreement with everyone, but it is the best outcome to the situation whether everyone likes it or not. A peacemaker is willing not to be like be everyone as long as the right outcome is produced. While typing this I recalled in the bible, when Jesus says “ blessed are the peacemakers for they are the children of God”. Why did he say this? Because he knew that what he was going to say and do, not everyone was going to agree with it or like it, but he knew that it was the best for everyone whether they liked it or accepted it. As ladies and gentlemen in this world, we are going be leaders or the ones that people will look up to when things get out of hand, or advice is needed, or resolution to a problem; in any case, if you are going to be that goto person, then my question is, are you a Peacemaker or a Peacekeeper ?
5 likes • 4d
Hmm, some food for thought there thank you Anthony that is very true in my experience. By the way the word you were looking for is semantics, I think Symantec was an IT company 🙂
Meet the Jodhpuri Suit.
Traditional Indian Ethnic suit paired with a trouser. Maybe if you are trying for a suit but want something different, then this can be an option. They have different closure style but are very easy to mix and match with different colored trousers.
Meet the Jodhpuri Suit.
6 likes • Oct '25
I like that style particularly the blue one but I think it might be harder for a European to pull off without looking like he's trying to look Indian, but I'd be willing to give it a try! 😄
Scent of the Day: Dior Fahrenheit
Tonight I wore Dior Fahrenheit, a gift from my wife. Bold leather, spice, and violet leaf make it unforgettable. Perfect pairing with the Bulova from the birthday girl, my sister-in-law, for a celebration that felt as meaningful as the gifts themselves.
Scent of the Day: Dior Fahrenheit
1 like • Aug '25
I shall look it up immediately, I have not heard of this one but that is not surprising given my current shlub status 😄
Last day at Mayo
Followed up post-op with the eye surgeon this morning. Her eye looks great and the doctor is very happy with the results. We are heading home! Stopped by the Bösendorfer (Elite builder of pianos, a full size concert grand sells for over $1M) baby grand piano for a little ticklin' of the ivories before leaving the Gonda building. White/green paisley linen button down Dark wash Wrangler original cowboy cut jeans My belt, buckle, and boots y'all are familiar with Threw on the hat and sport coat again. Among the hat, baby, and piano playing, I couldn't go 10 minutes without a compliment. This is a special place.
Last day at Mayo
7 likes • Aug '25
Happy for you on the good news sir! Also full respect for your skill on the piano, that level is not easy to reach!
Cloudy Day
This outfit and scent just felt right.
Cloudy Day
5 likes • Aug '25
@Chad Smith Yea I like how all the colours are generally neutral but at any moment he can pull up his trouser leg and *BAM* take that!!! Secret weapon!
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Scott Wightman
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Older guy, born in Zimbabwe(Rhodesia), grew up in UK and now live down under.

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