Today in the Uk it’s Mother’s Day. It can be a beautiful day for many… but it can also be a complicated one. Over the years I’ve learned that motherhood isn’t always simple, and it doesn’t always look the way we imagine it should. Some of us have wonderful mothers. Some of us have lost them. Some of us are trying to heal from difficult relationships. And some of us were held up along the way by other incredible women who stepped in when we needed them most. For me, life has been a mixture of all of these things. My relationship with my mum hasn’t always been easy. There has been trauma there, and that’s something I’ve had to work through over the years. Now she lives with Alzheimer’s, and as an only child I’m doing my best to care for someone who once hurt me. That’s not always simple either. But life has also given me incredible women, aunts, teachers, friends, and quiet champions who lifted me when I needed it most. So today I wanted to share a small poem about the women who hold us. The ones who show up with kindness, patience, and love whether they’re our mothers or not. If today feels joyful for you, I’m so glad. If today feels a little tender, you’re not alone. And if there has ever been a woman in your life who helped steady you when things were hard… today might be a lovely day to think of her too. With love, Kate 🌿 The Women Who Held Us Not every mother is the one who gave us our name. Some arrive quietly in borrowed moments of kindness — an aunt who makes tea when the world feels too loud, a teacher who notices the child trying very hard to be brave, a neighbour who opens the door and lets the light in. They are the women who steady us. The ones who place gentle hands on shaking shoulders and say nothing at all, because sometimes being held in silence is the most powerful love of all. Mothering, it turns out, is not always about blood. It is about presence. About the women who step forward when the road becomes steep, who offer warmth, wisdom,