Hey everyone Based on the 30 day social confidence challenge, I've put together a comprehensive guide on how to create a thriving social life. This guide includes - how to build a social circle from zero - the key social skills to develop - the main fears you'll need to overcome (and how) Comment "SOCIAL" below if you want a copy Cheers

Hey guys To celebrate and promote the upcoming Social Confidence Workshop, I'm giving away an old Body Language training tool I used in a previous workshop. Comment "confidence" below and I'll send it to you. Reminder: You must be a VIP member to join the workshop, which is on this Saturday! 👉 Upgrade your membership to VIP (Brotherhood) to join the Social Confidence Workshop here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/plans

Amping up the volume now! This challenge is about being a leader, which is often just about being an organizer. When you lead, you get to choose your social life. When you only follow, you're restricted to being controlled by others. Create a group event that you lead and organise. It doesn't need to be a big party or anything (but can be if you want), and there are no rules about who attends so long as there are 3 or more in total. It could be a coffee catch up, a BBQ, a games night, taking the family on a wine tour, or even running a meetup group full of strangers. Use your imagination, do something that's true to you, and make sure you take care of all arrangements so your guests only need to know where and when to show up. If this is new for you, keep it small and simple. If you're broke, do something free or something where everyone pays their own way. If you're struggling for ideas, just use Google or ChatGPT. 30 pts for making it happen - prove with selfie or something similar in comments. P.S. Some of you have already done something like this for previous challenges, and received points there. To get these points you'll need to do it again xx

Now we'll open up the kinds of actions that really amplify your social opportunities. The challenge this week is to add a NEW event to your calendar that will increase your social connection opportunities. UPDATE: This needs to be in-person, not online - unless you live in an exceptional circumstance without any opportunities e.g. in Antartica. You get 5 pts for adding an event to your calendar (comment with screenshot + basic description of the event as proof), and 15 pts for actually attending it (selife at the event as proof). This video from the Building Rapport course will give you some ideas that I've validated as having high social value https://www.skool.com/brojo-brotherhood-2147/classroom/0a7bb52c?md=9326997434da4259bcf688c331e5c65a CURRENT LEADERBOARD 32 pts @Jason Stobart 28 pts @Rutger Diergaarde 24 pts @Dana R 23 pts @Sid M 22 pts @Aaron Frater 20 pts @Ernie Jamison 17 pts @Hemi Rainford 5 pts @Ryan Adams and @Jason Hipp With the points getting bigger for the higher stakes challenges, it's anyone's game at this stage!

Today's challenge is both simple and powerful: invite someone you haven't spoken to in a while for an in-person catch up, e.g. old friend, cousin, ex-colleague. You get 2 points per invitation. You can prove you did the invitation by posting a screenshot in comments of this thread (make sure you blur or cut out any name or picture that identifies the other person - if you don't know how to do this, DM me the proof instead of commenting below). BONUS! You get 15 extra points if you can prove the catch up actually happened, e.g. selfie of you having a drink together - this can be done later in the week/month. This video from the Building Rapport course talks a bit about approaching people (but it's more aimed at strangers) https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/classroom/85ce3f87?md=db8a6006170345b7984ec3d97e4c7b59 CURRENT LEADERBOARD TOP 5 @Rutger Diergaarde 19 pts @Aaron Frater 18 pts @Sid M 16 pts @Jason Stobart and @Ernie Jamison 15 pts You can catch up on your challenges and score bonus points by supporting others at any time - just scroll through the 30 day challenge thread here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491?c=b4ccdb0a5fbe4610b22ad78c48a2dabb&s=newest-cm&fl=