Sam here (SE from the telegram group)! Happy to see you all and proud to be part of this group that is fighting the good fight.

The next couple of course modules are in the works. I don't want Accountabilio to be just about quitting porn and overcoming compulsive behaviors, because that's just one part of it. For those who know me, know that I have a past with this issue, and I resolved it. But a lot of the time it is fronted online that overcoming things such as porn addiction will automatically make you successful, attractive, mindful, and just riddled with discipline. That is a part of it, but it's not the full picture. Addiction is a limiter. But to completely change your life, you have to take action. And if you have a past where you have lived in a limited state, it can be hard for you to know how and what you need to do to achieve your goals. That is why the next process will look like this. First, we overcome your addiction. And I mean truly overcome it, not just get to a 30, 60, or 90-day streak. I want you to get to a point where your complete system is restored. Then we will delve deeper into how to regain internal control. Overcoming addiction is not just about stopping the behavior, because throughout the years, when you have been engaging with it, you have created an internal state that is not optimal for growth. So that is why we will focus on regaining internal control and make it a part of your identity. That is the next module that is coming up, so stay tuned for that, guys.

Curious to hear from you guys. What was the moment where you realized you actually needed to change something? For me, I kind of accidentally noticed that PMO was an issue.. I think I was around 21 or 22. Life was actually going fine -> I was studying, working, exercising, had a good relationship with my family, friends, girlfriends, all of that. But one day I was just laying in bed feeling super depressed. And I genuinely could not pinpoint why. So I decided to PMO. At that point it was something I used for everything. If I was bored, sad, happy, excited, anxious. Whatever feeling I had, I would regulate it with PMO. But what I noticed right after was that I actually felt worse than before. That is when I got the (genius) idea to google: "Is porn bad for you?" What I found was what made me decide to quit. I stumbled into the nofap community, and there I read testimonies from guys describing the exact same things I was experiencing. The dullness of life. Lack of deep motivation. Anxiety. Stress. Escalating sexual preferences. That was the first moment where I realized something might actually be wrong here. I would not say it was planned. I kind of just stumbled into it. What about you? What made you decide to start questioning PMO?