The Real Win Is Not Feeling Good. The Real Win Is Being Okay When You Do Not Feel Good. Recently I have been noticing something that most people try to hide. You can be aligned You can be committed. You can be consistent. You can be doing everything you know to do. And you can still find yourself in a season where the outer results do not match the inner effort. You start strong. Momentum feels real. You think the breakthrough is right in front of you. Then everything goes quiet. That is when the old identity shows up with its familiar lines. “Prove yourself.” "Fix this.” “Make something happen.” “You should be further along.” For a long time, I tried to outrun that voice. I tried to outwork it. I tried to outperform it. I tried to rise above it with willpower and mindset tricks. Here is the truth that finally landed for me. The real win is not the moment when you feel good. The real win is the moment you allow yourself to be okay even when you do not feel good. It is sitting with the discomfort instead of running from it. It is letting emotions surface without judging yourself for having them. It is noticing the old identity trying to stay alive and choosing not to feed it. It is trusting your path even when there is no external evidence. It is allowing the contrast instead of pretending it is not there. This is where real transformation happens. Not in the highs. Not in the breakthroughs. Not in the peak moments. It happens in the quiet moments when nothing seems to be moving, and you choose to stay with yourself anyway. If you are in a season like that right now, a season where the old identity is dissolving and the new one is forming through stillness and sensation... You are not off track. You are in transition. And transitions always feel like this. Drop a fire emoji if you are choosing to be your True Self and to radically embrace Now with the version of you that is rising.

Have you ever noticed how much of life is spent trying to make things happen? Wanting things to happen? Waiting for things to happen? Doing, pushing, forcing only to end up exhausted, waiting for results that seem to move further away the harder you chase them. Here’s the thing they forgot to teach us in school: You don’t get what you want by chasing. You don’t enjoy health, wealth, inner peace, or love by doing more things. You receive what you’re already energetically aligned with. Everything is energy, not metaphorically, but literally. Everything is energy! The same energy the ancients called Chi or Prana is the same life force Jesus referred to as the Spirit - “the Breath that gives Life.” Quantum physicists describe this energy as the quantum field or, more precisely, the unified field of energy and information that underlies all matter and consciousness. I like to keep it simple and call it: The Light Whatever you call it, when you align with that inner current instead of fighting against it, desire stops being something outside of you to reach for and becomes something already flowing through you. In case you missed my previous posts on this topic: Radical Embracing is a way of being and living that encapsulates accepting, allowing, surrendering, and having - all at the same time. It combines neuroscience, physiology, metaphysics, and quantum science to create a break in our habitual ways of thinking and reacting, opening space for a completely new experience of life. Radical Embracing is IDEAL Living simplified. And... Here’s the universal formula for Healthy Success: Desire + Radical Embracing = Desire Fulfilled So it makes sense to start Radically Embracing right here and right now! Here’s how: 🌬️ Step 1: Embrace the Energy You’re In Stop labeling your current state as “wrong” or “bad.” If you feel tired, anxious, or otherwise unpleasant, just embrace it. Be careful not to assign any words to it. Remember: Words are the code for your EOS (Energetic Operating System).

Feeling called to share my calling. Raw and uncut. Here goes: I was born in chaos. Conceived during an escape, raised in addiction and uncertainty, and shaped by a nervous system that learned survival before love. For decades, I made three silent agreements that ran my life like code: “Never be fat.” “Never be poor.” “Never do drugs or get drunk.” Those vows made me driven, disciplined, successful. They also made me tense, terrified, and transactional. I built one of the highest revenue producing boutique gyms in the country - and then watched it all collapse. When I look back now, it wasn’t failure. It was creative destruction - Source clearing out everything that wasn’t aligned with who I truly am. Keeping it real: At the height of success, money became my god. My validation came from my bank account, my reputation, and my next big goal. And when I lost it all - the marriage, the house, the business -I thought I had lost myself. But what I actually lost was the false self - the one built on proving, hustling, and performing. In its ashes, like the Phoenix I arose as peace, awareness, and presence. I emerged as my True Self. Now I see that every breakdown was a breakdown of illusion. Every collapse was a creative correction toward my True Freedom. For the last three years, I’ve been learning how to live without chasing. How to create without forcing. How to let money flow without worshiping it. How to be me without performance. That’s the real work - transmuting survival into creation, shame into sovereignty, and hustle into harmony. 💡 My Energetic Breakthroughs (at a glance) Old Energetic Idenity ⟶ Transmuted Energetic Identity Validation through money ⟶ Circulation through meaning Fear of rejection ⟶ Freedom in authenticity Addiction to high ⟶ Devotion to Flow Fixing others ⟶ Facilitating embodiment I’ll never be like them” ⟶ “I Am the Light through them” Now, my devotion is to Flow. I’m sharing my story - not to prove anything, but to open a portal for others who are ready to remember who they really are.

I’m 17 hours and 23 minutes into a GH Fast. That’s a Growth Hormone Fast: 36+ hours of water only. No calories. Just Presence. Intention and water. Why would I do such a thing… and invite you to consider it too? Because this is not just a physical fast. It's a frequency reset. A reconnection to Source. A breaking of false dependencies. Here’s what I’m experiencing—and why this fast is a core pillar of my True Freedom journey: Physical Health 🧬 HGH Release After ~18 hours, your body begins to release natural human growth hormone, supporting cell repair, fat burning, anti-aging, and deep regeneration. (hgh is like a natural fountain of youth) It's like giving your body a software upgrade without the junk in the system. Awareness Health 🍽️ Food Awareness You begin to see your habits clearly why you reach for food, when you’re not even hungry. The patterns emerge. You reclaim your choice. 🔥 Hunger Awareness Hunger stops being something to fear. It becomes a portal to presence and the power of decision. The uncomfortable waves rise and fall. And you remember: You are not your cravings. 💥 Dopamine Awareness Without sugar, calories, or external stimulation, you start to recalibrate your reward system. You notice the subtle joy of breath, nature, and movement. This is dopamine detox meets spiritual discipline. *Note: Caffeine doesn't break your fast Spiritual Health 🙏 Spiritual Awareness You get clarity. You feel God Awareness. You become the Observer. The one who chooses, not the one who reacts. It's not about deprivation. Spiritual Fasting is about liberation. Plus, So many more benefits! And guess what? If you set the right intention - Fasting also promotes.... 💰 Financial Health More on this in my next post. There is no doubt about it, fasting is good for the body, mind, and soul! Fasting is one practice that every spiritual discipline promotes. And it regulates hormones and boosts the immune system. 3 of my Lightsharing Champions are with me. One of them, @Lisa Lopes, actually suggested it.

No judgment Just Awareness No competition Just Community Where are you at in this stage of your life journey? Comment Below👇🏼 TILY!