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7 contributions to ADHD Harmony™
The Identity Cage
Section 2 of the Awakening Assessment just showed me that the kid who wrote D&D stories and painted knights didn't disappear. He got buried under "achieve and stay invisible." Turns out my authentic self isn't more impressive - it's sillier. And that changes everything.
Summary
Just got my ADHD Snapshot and one line stopped me cold: the thing I've never been able to explain about my brain is the exact thing the people closest to me have spent years criticizing. No wonder I stopped trying to put it into words. Turns out the 7-year-old version of me who started watching humans through glass wrote a letter that the 50-something version of me really needed to read. Excited for Day 1.
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@Peggy Walman no the assessment asked when did I notice I was different. Then later asked what I would write to my 7 year old self.
Truth about the brain
Just started the ADHD Awakening Assessment and already discovered that what I've been calling "no motivation" is actually my nervous system carrying a 50-pound backpack nobody else can see. Also realized the "shifts in the wind" I sense at jobs aren't paranoia, they're a pattern. Curious what the next sections reveal.
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Section 2
Section 2 of my Snapshot just hit different. I always called it "frustration" or "bad luck" - the relationships that crashed, the layoffs, the friendships that turned critical. Today I learned it has a different name: grief. And I finally understand why I only see the office politics a year too late, while everyone else catches it in the meeting.
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@Lynn Berry Grief hits way different than frustration. Grief is somehow deeper, and speaks to a loss or losses. Grief seems to speak to a systemic level of constant frustration. Like being a pilgrim in an unholy land.
section 3
Just finished all 3 sections of my ADHD Snapshot and realized something. I've been calling my struggles with people a "skill gap" I need to close, like I just haven't worked hard enough yet. Turns out I read logic fine. Nobody ever taught me how to translate myself to people who don't think like me. That's a very different problem.
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Matthew Cieri
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