YOU are not fat, you HAVE fat
“Ugh… I’m fat.” “Hi Fat, I’m Dad!” Are you fat? Of course not! You are YOU — a marvelous human being with a body that lets you walk, talk, think, laugh, run, jump, and live your life. Your body has fat, yes… and it needs fat. Even though we often think of fat as “bad,” it’s actually essential for your body to function, feel good, and stay healthy. The goal isn’t to get rid of fat — it’s to have the right kinds in the right amounts. Did you know women naturally have more body fat than men? That’s because our fat supports some incredibly important things, like: - hormone balance - fertility - temperature regulation - brain and organ health So how do we make sure we have the right amount of fat? It all comes down to balance, not extremes. For most women 50+, a healthy body fat range is generally 25–35%, though this can vary person to person. After menopause, estrogen drops, and fat naturally shifts from the hips and thighs toward the midsection. This can feel like weight gain, but it’s often just normal redistribution and a change in body shape. This fat can be stored just under the skin (sometimes leading to an apron belly) or deeper around the organs, called visceral fat. Visceral fat is the one we want to be mindful of because it’s more connected to long-term health risks. If your body fat percentage is above the recommended range, focusing on a nutrient-dense diet, a slight calorie deficit, and intentional movement can make a huge difference over time. Strength training 2–4 times a week can drastically improve body composition and shape — especially for women in midlife. The goal is not to eliminate fat. The goal is to keep visceral fat in a healthy range and support your body with strength, muscle, and balanced nutrition. Fat is not the enemy — it’s part of a strong, healthy, resilient body.