If your seat, legs, and hands aren’t independent… your horse feels every brace, every lean, every collapse. Most riders think it’s a “horse training” issue. It’s usually a body awareness issue. Winter is the perfect time to fix this. You don’t need a saddle. You don’t even need to leave your couch. I just uploaded the full “Core Exercises You Can Do From the Couch” video inside the Classroom. These exercises will: • Improve rider balance • Increase true aid independence • Help you return to the saddle stronger this spring • Reduce tension your horse has been compensating for If you want your horse to feel lighter, freer, and more responsive… start with your body. 👉 Watch the full video in the Classroom section now under Ride Fitness.

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I'm going to be interviewing an animal communicator for my podcast, The Thinking Horse and Rider. Have you ever used one? I'd love to hear what you thought! I have not because I'm sure the same as a lot of people, I'm not sure I want to know what they have to say 🤣. That seems pretty selfish though doesn't it? Maybe I will give it a go one of these days 🤗 Don't forget to invite your friends!