@Jolene Beaton You know, that recently happened to me in my bachata dance class. I would just spin her instead of slowing down and allowing us to actually enjoy the dance. also to add, a while back I also realized I was carrying the conversation, and that it was a self-worth issue feeling like I needed to perform in order to be worthy of the type of affection and relationship I was looking for. So back to your point it also felt one-sided. I can totally relate. Thanks for sharing