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Parenting Adult Children Today

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Q for Tracy re today’s class
Tracy would you please reiterate the alternative response to “I did my best” you shared in the class. In addition to it being very triggering due to issues within my FOO (family of origin), my ACs have responded that it feels like excuse making and an unwillingness to take responsibility (dismissive) re the impact of my behaviors, and I cannot disagree with them. Thank you.
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@Tammy Carbone I, too, want to heal what I have swept under the rug. We can look forward to living with less pain and thriving, instead of just surviving. 😊👍
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@Marshall Gordon I hear you. My sister idealized our parents and never wanted to discuss the struggles and dysfunction we experienced. She shut down any discussion with a similar statement.
Welcome to The P.A.R.E.N.T. Method!
Hello Parent, I am so excited you are here! We are going on a journey together that will help you create the relationship with your adult child you have always wanted. Parenting in this season is not for the faint of heart and I know from personal and professional experience what it takes to be a successful parent to adult kids. You are already ahead of the curve. You are here, hungry to learn, and wanting to grow! Your children are fortunate to have a parent like you who is teachable and willing to invest in your relationship with them. There is no ceiling on a parent who is committed to being the best version of themselves and you will learn on this journey how to be who your child needs you to be: Accepting, emotionally safe, and worthy of trust. Parenting is about you and how you show up in the relationship, not how your children turn out. This is your journey so take whatever time you need to walk through this framework. I have helped parents for over 40 years and I have implemented what you will see and hear with my own adult children, who are in their 40's. I will take you through this process step by step so you know exactly how to incorporate these skills and insights into your life. I want you to be kind to yourself as you start this process. There are millions of parents who have the same questions so take comfort in knowing you are not alone. The good news is that now you are a part of a community who will learn together how to parent adults with confidence and grace. Thanks again for being a part of the P.A.R.E.N.T. Method community. Let's get started! Warmly, Catherine
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@Anne Bliss I have been ignorant of parenting differently with 33 and 38 year old sons. You are not alone.
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@Saundra Gwinn Welcome, Saundra! Be kind to yourself and go gently in the Modules. There is no rush. Soon you will find support, understanding, and clarity. This is just the beginning of your story.
Not sure what to put for the title
Not having any communication with my three sons is very discouraging! Seems like a huge mountain to climb, but I love my sons and I would climb any mountain for them
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Hi Robert and welcome! It takes much courage to step into this community and to want to change your adult child relationships. We are all with you in this journey and can feel the pain that got you here. Catherine's program was a God-send to me and I encourage you to be/stay hopeful. You will find answers, support, new responses, and insight.
Assertiveness
Understanding our assertiveness level is key to knowing how we handle conflict and difficult conversations. You will find key insights on how to handle your own assertiveness and the impact other's assertiveness (or the lack thereof) has on you.
Assertiveness
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My thoughts after this video: I need to show up as a grounded and healthy person that communicates with clarity and respect so that my sons can trust that I am a safe person. Since my older son is not forthcoming and honest in our relationship, am I communicating that I'm weak and can't handle him and his choices? Am I communicating conditional love? I know I have to look inside myself and honestly address these questions. @Catherine Hickem I appreciate this content and the directed, thought-provoking questions on assertiveness.
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@Laurie Partner I'm glad you're feeling calm and less stressed about your adult children's relationships! 😅👍 It was helpful for me to read your summary and how what we learn makes a difference.
Adult child living with us.
Hello everybody. We are Marshall and Susan Gordon. So glad to be in this community. We have a single 40 year old adult male living with us. We would like to see him move on and seperate himself.
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Welcome Marshall and Susan!
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@Marshall Gordon Wow, you have really been using the skills in this program to make changes! Congratulations and thank you for sharing what has worked.
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Karla Comberiate
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@karla-comberiate-2663
Recently retired occupational therapist, mother of 38 and 33 yr old sons, divorced 21 years, challenging relationship with older transgender son

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Joined Mar 5, 2026
Columbia, MD
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