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Day 24: 50 days of discipline
Physical win: walk today - resting Accountability win: long day of YouTube work and planning Mental win: podcast listening Spiritual win: didn’t bring my phone on the walk today which was refreshing Almost half way!
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Im back! P: 75 pushups A: ordered all Christmas gifts M: read newsletter about self control S: 1 hour of prayer/reflection
Looking for advice with friends and gossip
I'm still in school and I’ve got some solid friends at school, but there are a few people in my circle who gossip nonstop. As a Christian, I avoid that, and honestly despite faith it just wrecks relationships anyway, no one likes to be talked about behind their back. They talk about everyone, and other people have started pointing it out to me, so it’s not just in my head, though I don't think they take it as seriously as I believe they should. The problem is the talking people are super social and have a lot of influence. They’ll turn someone’s mistakes into conversation material just for fun without any regards of the persons reputation or feelings. And if I’m not on good terms with them, I end up being the one they talk about — which obviously isn't good. I get the whole “don’t care what people think,” but when they nitpick literally everything I do, it gets more complicated then that. So now I’m trying to figure out what to do. Do I stay friends with them? Do I distance myself? Do I cut them off? It’s tricky because my school is small, and no matter what, I'll still see them every day for a decent chunk of time.
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dw bout the length to talk about what's on your mind. it is good to open up about these issues in our life. thanks for sharing Tom's words are great and I completely agree. you don't have to participate in the gossip and discussion - wether thats by just being on the outside of conversations and not participating or by not being physically in those conversations - while still being friendly with them outside of those situations. if anyone every tries to pull you into the gossip or asks why you don't participate you can use that to discuss why you don't participate in the gossip. feed and grow with other people who are supportive of what you value - in this case not gossiping best of luck
Day 12: 50 days of discipline
Physical win: 10k steps Accountability win: took thumbnails for my video tomorrow Mental win: 15 minutes of podcast Spiritual win: no phone walk
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P: 30 minutes workout ✔️ 45 minute walk in phone A: measure to fix window❌ fix sisters chair M: attend retreat ✔️ talk to friend about life S: attend retreat ✔️ talk to friend about life tmrw I will do 15 minutes of stretching work on pumpkins start reading a book and pray
Day 11: 50 days of discipline
Physical win: early morning walk to watch sunrise Accountability win: ticked off all my to do list today and got up super early. Mental win: spent some time mapping out my future plans as an influencer Spiritual win: spent the first 15 minutes with myself
Day 11: 50 days of discipline
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category: goal for day ✔️ or ❌ additional wins in that category P:grappling class ✔️ A: finish laundry ✔️ contacted someone on joining a group now that I'm 18 M:go to a retreat ✔️ S: go to a retreat✔️ 3 silent drives, reflecting on my relationship with my mom tmrw I will do a 30min calisthenics workout, measure for a repair I need to do, and go to part 2 of the retreat ( m&s)
Loving this community!
Just want to let you know I’m super happy with this community and love how you guys are asking questions and being contributing! So proud of this!
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I agree this is an awesome group of men and I love seeing the growth and accountability among us. let's keep the community up y'all!
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Joshua Estes
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18,joyful Catholic working on becoming the man I ought be while helping those around me do the same live well so you can pray well

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