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Airport/Travel hacks
Hit me with your best shots! Inspiration behind the question- Had a recent travel nightmare, flight cancelled and stuck in Atlanta with only the clothes on my back. Bags sent to final destination. I’m in a Linen blend blazer, slacks and that’s what I’m now going to be spending the night in. Folks were mad (understandable) but screaming at the agent isn’t going to help. Got a rental car and a hotel and some sleep then drove home the next day. Hanging up the clothes in the bathroom and taking a hot shower basically steams them for you, basic touch up with the iron and I’m looking good as new. Next time though- definitely a change of clothes in the carry on even for a domestic flight… Would love to hear what you guys have as your travel tips for looking good, even when things go bad.
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@Antonio Cent now we’re talking! Just picked some up, thanks
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@Dr. Jason Cole I am also a “passport always” traveler. Plus it gives you an aura of mystery, which I just find amusing. I’ve heard too many horror stories of wallets being stolen in airports so I usually keep in somewhat deeper in a secure area of a bag while a passports sits relatively flat in a breast pocket of a blazer and doesn’t look like a target. And you are right, linen isn’t the friendliest when it comes to wrinkles but you can’t beat it when it’s hot outside. I guess that’s the gamble!
What Style Choice Shouldn't Matter But Still Bothers You?
I'm watching the World Cup match featuring Mexico and South Korea, and keep finding myself cringing every time the South Korean head coach is shown. The problem (which shouldn't be a problem)? He's wearing a polo shirt with all the buttons buttoned... I don't know why, but I can't stand seeing a polo shirt with all the buttons buttoned. It's worse, to my eye, than a tailored jacket with all the buttons buttoned. I honestly have no idea why it bothers me so much, but it does. So, what say ye? What style choice - or choices - bother you that really shouldn't?
6 likes • Jun 23
Basic suit mistakes. Cents sewn shit, bottom buttons, stuff like that. It says “I’m trying but I’m not sure what I’m doing”. Instead of ignoring it, I’ve started stopping people and kindly letting them know- and most of the time turning them into the RMRS community. Favorite story- saw a fellow at church at church who was obviously in a brand new suit. Vents sewn, tag on the sleeve, matching tie/pocket square combo, the works. Stopped him and showed him one of the Suits Basics videos and the next week the dude was rocking it.
Grateful to this community
Guys, I (mistakenly) took a look at some of the men’s style communities on Reddit and what a dumpster fire! Downright mean, poor advice, criticism without the constructiveness…. Just sad. It reminds me of a quote I once heard: “If a mouse laughs at a cat, it means its hole is nearby”. Weak people act brave when they have protection, in that realm it is anonymity I guess. The question remains- why?
The great mystery of Linen
Ok boys, it’s already real hot in North Carolina. I’d been living in (Southern) Italy the last few years, and swear by linen in warm weather. Classy, comfortable and incredibly effective to help with the heat- however- nobody here seems to be wearing it. Except me, of course. Dudes have been stopping me and saying “what’s that?” Or “how can you be in long sleeves/ pants right now?” And have genuinely never heard of linen clothes. The real question is… why? Are most dudes just opposed to branching out from what is standard?
0 likes • Apr 12
@Srini A this is the vibe I’m seeing. Good thing I stocked up in Italy!
Men's bag please
I want to understand about men's bag as a fashion item. It is surely the most utility item a man can carry. But, often, due to lack of awareness, I just carry my back pack (which has very traditional looks). And I am beginning to realize that back packs are too old school and lack that oomph. Please help me here. What kind of a bag would you carry? If you already are into this, please post some pics and details.
2 likes • Apr 10
That’s going to depend on what you’re doing but have you ever thought of moving towards a briefcase? Or messenger bag? Get in genuine leather and take care of it, I’ve been carrying one for quite a while now and always get questions about it. If you go too formal with it, it will look weird u less your going to an office but there are lots of more casual styles out there! Happy hunting.
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John Farinacci
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Active duty Military. Father, husband, adventurer. Lived in Italy for several years and love to travel. RMRS helped me put my best foot forward.

Active 21m ago
Joined Jan 22, 2026
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