Tip #2: DON'T FLIRT I can't stress this enough guys... don't flirt with girls Think about the sub-communication it displays by you trying to flirt with someone you don't know... It shows that just because she's pretty you're willing to bend over backwards for her, that you're so interested and keen to be with her... when you don't even know her... She could spend her free time plucking the legs off of spiders because she likes the noise they make when they get dismembered!! Bit of a twisted example but just want to explain that she could be a fucking prick or a nasty person in real life... Just because she's pretty doesn't mean you show all your cards and show her you like her.... That's just weird.... Instead use the time of meeting her for the first time to establish if she is just generally a cool, fun, friendly person... GENUINELY go in to be friends first... You won't believe how this realisation changed everything for me... When I just started to want to have more female friends... It changed the power dynamic... I didn't NEED anything anymore... And as a result, the girls that I typically went in for friends first with, made the first move on me in terms of escalating to kissing or sexual stuff. Imagine that... You're trying so hard to get laid now and it doesn't work... then when you forget about sex, and just go in to make a new friend to see if she's cool and vibe with... you actually get the intimacy you wanted.... if not from her then from other girls who sense your non-attachment to sex.... Liberating and less pressure on yourself and the girl.... Try that going forward from today onwards and for the love of god... don't fucking flirt.... Be the G that just has a lot of female friends... Good luck my boy!

TIP #1: *JUST LET HER KNOW YOU EXIST* For the newbies... Don't reject yourself before you let her know you exist as a human being on this planet. How pathetic is it that you reject yourself before she even gets to know you as a human also live on the earth with her. Just because she has a pretty/symmetrical face, you think she's better than you or above you?! Bro... don't be a pussy for the rest of your life... Approach her... see if you have chemistry... see if she's up for meeting for a drink... and see her another time... OR JUST GET REJECTED... There's no other way through it... you have to get rejected thousands of times to become great at anything... same with pretty girls

1. Hey... excuse me... I was just curious... do you always look this good or is today just special? 2. Excuse me... if i didn't say hi i knew i would have regretted it later... I'm Jay... (reach for hand)... 3. (eye contact) (smile) - if she smiles back stop and say "How's it going? I'm Jay" Don't want to put too many as it may overwhelm you nervous overthinkers out there. Use these over the next week. Repeat them. Don't try to do anything different. (Apart from change it from my name to your name) During each of the approaches remember to SMILE! Have good EYE CONTACT (smile through your eyes) - practice in front of a mirror so you don't look creepy. Be FUN, LIGHT, and BREEZY! Those are the traits you should embody for best results. And just have fun... see where it goes... don't be attached to the outcome... just explore and see what happens... you get butterflies and smiles and numbers and instant dates... cool. OR You get slaps, rejections, laughed at and embarassed... also cool. The aim is just to experiment and have fun with it. Good luck gentlemen.

1. You will always overthink, act before the thoughts rot your mind. 2. Let her know you exist (don't reject yourself before she knows you're a person, make yourself known). 3. Be in the moment rather than in your mind... let yourself out rather than the script you remembered. 4. Eye contact is everything (smile through your eyes and don't be the first one to look away). 5. DON'T FLIRT! (can't stress this one enough) - Most guys try to flirt with a stranger and it's cringe because you give her so much validation. Just because she's pretty doesn't mean she's GF material. Qualify her and see if she passes the vibe check to hang out further another time. (aka simping). 6. It's their fairy tale to be approached rather than to be matched on a dating app. Do the manly thing and approach. You'll feel like a boss, she'll feel feminine, chemistry galore! 7. It's a numbers game - Approach 3 times a day . Keep it simple. 3 times a day x 365 days a year = 1095 approaches. Over that time you'll become an expert. Outwork your overthinking. Literally approach the first 3 girls you see by themselves every day. Trust me, from someone who's approached anywhere between 3000-5000 girls in my time... this is the best way. Flood your brain with so much action that it has no time for anxiety to exist because you're constantly taking action. 8. Everyone is scared of approaching first, be different. Inspire your friends with your massive actions. The status you'll gain will be immeasurable and the feeling is intoxicating! 9. Chill and smooth is better than extrovert and quirky - don't be an annoying cringey dickhead repeating the things you see youtubers do. In real life she'll think you're weird. She just wants a normal guy, not the centre of attention everywhere he goes. 10. Take massive action now while you're still single so you don't regret it when you're older and married, and want to cheat on your wife cause you didn't take action when you were single and had the chance.

Just sharing that I met my wife of 2 years now, and gf before that for 6 years, 8 years total now, through daygame in the UK. And now we have a 1 year old son together. Met in a shopping centre, Westfields. Went on an instant date. Swapped numbers. Went on several dates while still dating other girls for a year. Then after a year decided to make her my gf. Hope to add some value to the other guys who’d like that to happen for them at some point too so feel free to ask me anything. Good luck gents.