CommonHer: “I just need him to come so I can finally feel settled.” Keptie: “I create stability in myself so I can recognize stable love.” 👉 Where in your life are you waiting for a man to provide a feeling you could begin cultivating now?

I am expanding into the belief that love can support me, cover me, comfort me, and create room for me to exhale without becoming responsible for carrying all of my pressure. Partnership is a gift, but it is not my rescue plan. My husband can walk beside me, listen to me, care for me, protect me, and help me feel held, while I remain connected to God, connected to myself, and connected to my own capacity to regulate. I can desire safe love without making love responsible for removing every hard thing from my life. I can let myself be supported without disappearing into someone else’s strength. I can share what feels heavy without handing over my entire nervous system. I can be comforted and still be responsible for my own healing, discernment, and emotional stewardship. A healthy partnership gives me a place to be seen, softened, supported, and covered. Love is allowed to be a place of refuge, but God remains my source. Love is allowed to help me breathe, but I am still learning how to breathe within myself.

Hey Kepties, Our once a month Bible study is happening tomorrow at 2pm CST I’m reviewing the entire book today and thought to share my final chapter focus and journal prompt in case any of you want to use it! Ecclesiastes 12 Focus: The conclusion of the matter. Key Verse: Ecclesiastes 12:13 Journal Question: What do I want my life to ultimately be known for?

Once a month, I host our Keptie Roundtable — this is NOT a focused lesson this is a live group conversation where we have a mini refresher of the Kept-Worthy blueprint, celebrate your growth, and you have the opportunity to discuss your Keptie journey with our Kepties! 🗓️ The date for the next Roundtable is pinned in the calendar — make sure you add it to your calendar! 7/1 at 11am CST Comment “I’ll Be There” as your RSVP And leave your questions and suggested topics ⬇️ No questions are off limits…so even if you can’t attend leave them below, I’ll answer them and you can watch the replay!

I no longer have to earn love by being the good one, the easy one, the accomplished one, or the one who does not need much. I can be loved when I am soft. I can be loved when I am still. I can be loved when I am not proving, fixing, managing, or performing. I can receive love without treating it like a debt I have to repay. I am learning that love can come toward me without me chasing it, forcing it, or becoming smaller to keep it. I do not have to perform to be loved. I can let love meet me. I can let myself be chosen. I can let myself receive.