Hello everyone, my name is Hollie and I’m from Kyle, Texas. I’ve been a software engineer for 5 years focusing on frontend web development. I joined this community because I became a mom last year and want a fully remote position so that I can have more flexibility to prioritize my family. I’ve been on and off applying for the past year, but with no success! I’m excited to see how this community can help me. 😊

Hey everyone, I’m a software developer from Berlin and wanted to briefly share something with you. Every time I searched for a new job, I struggled with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and all that shit that comes with it! After chatting with Alex on LinkedIn and getting invited to the community, I went through all the content here—and it completely changed my mindset around job searching and how to talk to companies. I was able to land the perfect job for me, one where I can genuinely see myself staying for the next 2–3 years while building on my skillset. Initially, the company offered me (without knowing) exactly the same salary I had before, with a plan to increase it by 12.5% after 6 months and another 12.5% after the following 6 months. I managed to negotiate a completely different setup: -> a higher starting salary (a 20% increase compared to my previous job) -> followed by a 15% raise after 6 months -> and another 25% raise after the next 6 months That adds up to a total increase of 50% within one year. We also agreed to define clear career goals for each 6-month period, each tied to a salary increase. After the negotiations, they said they would need to think about it. I hounestly expected a counter-offer with a lower salary and different conditions. The next fucking day, they sent me the signed contract—with a flexible start date and a note hoping I could start as soon as mid-February. I’m still a bit shocked that this actually happened, but I now see the job market with completely new eyes! So thank you, Alex, for providing all of this information for free 🙏 And to everyone who’s still struggling: don’t give up and trust the process. It WILL happen 🥳