We are wounded in relationship and we are healed in relationship
Whole bunch of us are in the shit these days. It's also known as ashes when things have burned down and we are drawn into the cave where we are forced to do the grieving that we probably should have been doing for some time. Healing, like all forms of growth, involves other people. We need to be supported, held accountable and witnessed. This is a big part of tribe that is not as sexy as optimization but just as important. Both shit and ashes are necessary components of fertile soil in our garden and forest fires unlock the seeds for new growth.