Hi, I wanted to share a reflection with you about a video by @Antonio Centeno on how to deal with disrespect, by bringing up a personal anecdote from when I used to work as a waiter. In the restaurant, the waiter’s job was to bring dishes to the tables, clear them, or wash glasses behind the bar. I was the only one who was good at washing glasses, but not very good at carrying dishes, so I stayed at the bar. For some unknown reason, though, my boss wanted me to stop working at the bar and start clearing tables. It would take too long to explain the whole story, but basically, I felt frustrated and disrespected. I wanted to speak up, to explain my point of view and earn respect for my skills. But trying to tell my boss how to run his restaurant would have only made him feel stupid—and out of pride, he would’ve belittled me in return. So I obeyed and started going around the tables to “clear” them: I took the used glasses to the bar—where nobody was washing them. The result? The bar got so clogged with dirty glasses that the bartenders could no longer serve beer to the customers. My boss eventually realized how dumb his decision had been and sent me back behind the bar to wash the glasses. The moral of the story is that trying to prove to an idiot that you’re competent is needlessly difficult. And if someone just wants to boss you around, you don’t always have to push back to earn respect. Sometimes, it’s better to follow stupid orders—as long as you do it like a robot. Being a boss and giving orders is a tough job. If a boss treats you with disrespect, make their job even harder. Just remember: they can punish you for disobedience, not for "stupidity." Let me know your opinions and eventually some of your personal experiences Have a good day😎 Buona giornata🇮🇹 Ad maiora!💫