The smallest things create the biggest relationship problems. Like this situation with my sister and brother's wife... You'd think a simple wedding decision would be no big deal - but it triggered a family pattern that's still causing tension years later. Here's what happened... When my brother's wife got married, she invited my sister to be one of her bridesmaids. Nice gesture, right? But when my sister had her wedding later, she didn't return the favor. Sounds minor, but that one decision created this weird underlying tension that nobody wants to address. Even now, years later, if I bring up "the bridesmaid situation," everyone gets awkward. My brother literally pleads "Please, just... please no." But here's where it gets interesting... Both families have daughters now. My brother has one, my sister has two. These kids interact all the time. And even though nobody talks about it... they can tell something's off. That's the thing about relationship patterns... They don't just stay between two people. They create this ripple effect through entire families, generation after generation. And the longer we avoid those difficult conversations, the deeper these patterns become embedded. It's something I see all the time in relationship coaching... People will do ANYTHING to avoid these conversations. They'll pretend everything's fine… Create elaborate stories… Even cut off contact completely. But avoiding the conversation doesn't make the pattern go away. It just trains the next generation how to handle (or not handle) conflict. Think about it... When kids see us tiptoeing around issues for years... Or watching family members create fake politeness to mask real problems... What are we actually teaching them? Point being… Proper relationship coaching isn't about "fixing" surface issues. You need to be able to spot these patterns… Understand where they come from… And most importantly - breaking them before they affect another generation. Look, I don't know if you're dealing with unresolved family tensions or if everything's perfect in your world...

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Thank you for your support This week @Deleted was invited to visit the special needs school we sponsor and help build in Bali. The children have continued to grow over the years and they are learning more and more skills as they get older. It is always great to see how your donations are making a difference in these children’s lives… They’ve got new tables and chairs in all the classrooms, sewing machines and even an air conditioning unit in one of the classrooms for the more severely disabled children. What was funny to see is they’ve added stickers with our logo to all of the equipment they’ve bought with your donations. The teachers found it very unusual when Carla showed them she had a matching tattoo of the logo on her arm These children are an inspiration. They have so little yet they’re so happy. It’s always a reminder to be grateful for the things we have in our lives and not to sweat the smaller things that we worry about because they don't matter in the grand scheme of things. Happiness is a choice and we can choose to be happy every single day You may have missed this... We do a quarterly prize giveaway for a FREE one-to-one session with the team. The winner is announced at the end of the Quarter. All you have to do to enter the draw for Q4 is to donate to the school. You can give whatever you want. There is no pressure. We always match your donation too. I know you have constraints on your giving and your life It's all cool. No matter how much you donate we appreciate you doing it and you get entered into the draw to win A FREE one-to-one with the team which we will always over-deliver for you in and make sure it's well worth it for you Big love Ed xxx The link is here if you want to donate and be included in the prize draw for Q4 to get a FREE one-to-one with the team https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/championacademy

I believe 100% in manifesting, but I have a query on how it's done...are you a person who visions it, asks the universe for it, lets it go, forgets and it will be done type OR are you a: vision it, ask for it and then take action steps towards achieving it? I ask because I am a believer that you need to take action for what you want, but finding this course and this community has been such a mind blowing, can't believe my luck, exactly what I need, could never have dreamed this opportunity to come my way, kind of event. To cut a long story short I have wanting to get certified as a life coach in the UK for a long time, I have a certification but it's US based and I live in the UK, there was no way I could invest the money at this time to get it. I also have been wanting to get more comfortable with posting in groups, and putting myself out there in the world of social media ect but just didn't have the confidence and also no accountability to do it, I'm shy and also so concerned about saying the wrong thing or getting negative feedback. And then boom, this opportunity comes up, I am forced (in the most amazing way) to contribute to a community and by doing this I can get certified as a life coach in the UK. I'm so very grateful 🥲 💫❤️🙏 So did I manifest from just my thoughts? I would love to hear your thoughts and people's story's about anything they have manifested. 💫

Hi everyone. How do you process guilt? Here is my situation: I have worked in public education for 26 years. I have lived the work I do, especially working in Alternative education. I coach aspiring leaders as part of my job. Recently, I have a new supervisor who admits openly to not caring about staff. I care very much about the people I support but she tells me to stop, that they are just resources to manage. And her actions back up those statements. I need to get away from the toxicity of a person who treats others this way. But I feel guilty about stepping away and leaving them without a leader who cares about them. Thoughts on how to decide the right thing to do?