We don't just make an impact through 1:1 sessions, major breakthroughs or leaps of faith. These are all exceptional spaces of cocreative communion, and they are powerful, indeed.... but they are not the only part of this process that yields results. There is massive action that takes place in the little, daily, moment-to-moment choices to act responsibly. This means that we catch anger before it controls the rest of the day, or the hours that follow the moment of emotional impact. It means we shift the judgement into acceptance the moment we witness and observe it arise within us. It means that we hold compassion for everyone, even our parents. It means we hold ourselves accountable for however we feel, no matter the situation or circumstance. It means we accept our lives as it's happening now without feeling like it's only better, more important, more impactful or more meaningful at some point in the future. When we dismiss the daily moment-to-moment opportunities, we dismiss the parts of us that are running around internally through instability, chasing drama and chaos, and seeking personal safety and healing from someone or something else. These are the parts that are desperately trying to be seen by us, but instead, we ignore them in hopes of something or someone better. We act through this state of ignorance because it allows us to remain in a steady state of irresponsibility. It will always be up to someone else to take care of our issues and our feelings. And to that end, not only do we not see ourselves with clarity, we do not see the event, moment, situation, or other person with clarity. We only see the story that we want to see. @Aurora Amelia @Mena Hajek @Nikki M @Samantha Olague @Sama Sal @Vicky L. @Becca Sweeting @Betsabe Torres

As each of you are aware by now, we have built our identity upon the backs of our parents. We have created an inner game of blame in order to restrict the level of responsibility that has always been ours, and ours alone. We have formulated ways to project our suppressed emotions in order to manipulate others (most specifically our parents) in an attempt to get what we want. This is also because we tend to approach our lives through the lens of "should" instead of "willingness". I know, for myself, I only started focusing on the mending of my relationship with my parents because of the "should" mentality. So together, we will unravel the "should" versus "willingness" through the completion of our parental patterns. This week I am dropping a few questions in here to reflect upon and answer. I would like for you to copy the questions and respond to this post with the outline of the questions, along with your answers. You have until next Thursday to complete this assignment, however, the sooner you tend to it the easier it becomes! Part 1: THE PHILOSOPHY OF COMPLETION AND WILLINGNESS STEP 1: Reflect on Resonance (Willingness vs. Obligation) The foundation of this work begins with your posture. We can see that doing this work from a place of obligation ("I should," "I need to," "I have to") will only recycle the past and damage you further. Instead, the requirement is simply your willingness. • What does it mean for you to replace your "shoulds" with a "willingness to stand in the possibility of seeing something you don't see today"? • Write a reflection exploring the difference in your body and mind when you approach your parental trauma from "willingness" rather than "obligation." STEP 2: Identify the Source (The Ultimate Mirror) The foundational assertion of this work is this: "Until you complete the relationship with your parents, all your relationships will be about your parents". We act out our incomplete parental dynamics with partners, friends, and in our careers.

Welcome everyone! I'm beyond excited to really open this space up and explore this thing we called life and our relationship to it. If you don't mind, please leave one post with your name, where you are from and what has called you here. This will shake off any cobwebs if you've stayed in the background with your voice, and let's you use your voice to express yourself clearly, and concisely! It's a warm up for how other posts will look for this and the VIP space. Each of you are perfect, brilliant, and capable! I am here as a mirror of that. I love you, and you've got this! ÉÉ & Jessica Hall

Hello loves! I want to let you all know I'll be slowly shifting posts and discussions to this space. I'm still learning the set up but I feel it will give us a bit more structure. I don't think there is an option for voice notes, which is like, a total bummer for me haha! But, I can offer recorded videos for you all instead! So, thank you for being here and I look forward to our shift into this space alongside WhatsApp 🌹 I would love to hear 1 big breakthrough you've had this week! No one dropped in on the last post I requested participation in (aside from @Samantha Olague so thank you beautiful💋) so here is your chance to start setting the stage for how you choose to show up responsibly and intentionally! It will assist you in getting used to using the app and checking it for important messages. Love you!

What a beautiful and powerful first session my loves! Thank you for choosing to play the game with me Samantha and Becca! I look forward to sharing in this with each of you along the way! What came through for you as you were witnessing these exchanges? Please be sure to pay attention to your body and the sensations and emotions that arise as you witness the process and hear them moving through the feelings and matrix of memories.