Lately, my inner critic has been louder than Iād like to admit. It whispers things that cut deep, especially on the days when Iām already tired or stretched thin. It tells me: - āYou should be further along by now.āAs if my journey hasnāt already taken incredible strength just to keep going. - āYouāre failing, even when youāre trying your best.āAs if effort, resilience, and survival donāt count. - āYouāre not enough for the life you want.āAs though worth is something earned instead of something I already carry within me. - āYouāre too much ā your emotions, your needs, your story.āAs if needing care or understanding is something to apologize for. - āNo one sees how hard youāre fighting, so maybe it doesnāt matter.āAs though being unseen means being unworthy. These are the voices that echo from old wounds, old expectations, and old pain ā not the truth of who I am. They come from a place of fear, not from a place of wisdom. And even when they feel heavy or convincing, Iām learning to notice them, breathe through them, and gently remind myself: My healing is not a race. My worth is not conditional. And I am growing, even on the days it feels like Iām standing still.