I used to judge people, people who were narrow minded, eat meat, criminal, people who claim themselves to be higher than others. I used to have a feeling of petty for them. Slowly slowly I realized they have a softer side, that they are not my enemies until I make them in my head. That helped me to focus on what they need, and to not judge them as everyone is improving day by day. But now I am again stuck, People who claim themselves to be enlighted, I can't help myself but to put them on trial. I have this constant urge to prove them wrong. I don't know where this desire will lead me to, but I have not made peace with it yet. Can someone help me overcome it ?

Greetings all! I am happy to join this group! I am from Ohio, in the US. I enjoy learning how people use spiritual principles to improve their own lives, and the lives of others.

Hello there, I'm 28M from India, living in India. So basically, here's what I desire: 1. A room where I can enjoy alone space for creativity and expanding money. 2. Whole foods plant based diet 3. Zero financial dependency on my father (because I've leeched too much from him only to end up in sloth and procrastination) 4. Modern smartphone and laptop to earn money with the least carbon footprint 5. Work that fulfills my soul I want all of this to happen in a few days, and not weeks. I'd be very happy living an independent life with choices. I have good intent of making sure my parents stop living frugally because I'm being a burden on them (I ain't guilt tripping, spend 15 days with me and you'll know why), but lack/possess: 1. Proper brain function and capabilities (A brain with an ability to make proper decisions, understand people, their words and educational concepts better, and retain information) 2. No source of income 3. No solid skillset (my skillset is comparable to someone in 1950s) 4. A criminal past, although I've never spent time in prison 5. Gratitude 6. A few cents in my bank account 7. Tendency to take advantage of others knowingly 8. An acquisitional mindset 9. No love/empathy 10. A dysregulated nervous system 11. Having niceness only in words, not actions + lacking the maturity to take appropriate actions 12. Expecting everyone to come talk to him and take care of him, while he doesn't show concern towards anyone until the person is of any utility to him TL; DR, a walking red flag! Summary: I want the universe to support me and make sure my needs are met until I don't have a job and find my calling to heal the world. I don't want to do a job because the stress in the kind of work we get these days is not worth the loss of peace and time for no worthy contribution to the society.