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6 contributions to The Cold Coffee Club
Question for you.
A bit ago, I asked what you're all building your business around, and the answers were so REAL! Thank you. I know it can sometimes feel like you’re alone in your boat, head down, paddling your heart out toward your goal.... But if you glance up, we’re actually a fleet of ships sailing in the same direction together! (Definitely worth taking a peek at the comments if you haven't already!) Now, I want to look at this in a different way. What are you building TOWARD? What’s a goal, your big vision you’re working for? Or, in other words, why do you do what you do? Feel free to get as grandiose (changing the world) or real-world (I want to financially support my family) as possible.
Question for you.
6 likes • 17d
I do this work because I know what it feels like to love someone and still have no idea how to actually do relationship well. It took me 27 years to say yes to marriage, and a lot of learning to create the kind of relationship I wanted to live inside of. Nobody really teaches us how to stay connected, honest, playful, and erotic over time. I love helping people find their way back to each other instead of quietly drifting apart.
1 like • 15d
My why for this business is pretty simple. It keeps me engaged, creative, connected, and out of trouble. I want it to support the life I actually want to live — pay for the help it takes to run the podcast and business well, cover our bills without draining savings, and give me enough stability to help the people I love when they need it. I also want to build a life with more people I love nearby. More dinners. More collaboration. More weird conversations around the fire pit. More community. I want a life that feels connected, generous, and alive instead of isolated and overworked.
The Shiny Squirrel Wrangler
How many shiny ideas are you carrying around in your head right now? 🐿️ The new offer... The content series... The thing you saw someone else doing... I'm guessing it's a lot! 😅 Now here's the real question — do you know which one to actually focus on first? Or do you tend to jump from one idea to another... Because when you do know where to focus... you STOP spinning. You STOP ending the week busy but somehow no further ahead. You STOP feeling guilty about the ideas you're not chasing and confident about the one you are. You actually finish things. You move the needle. Introducing The Shiny Squirrel Wrangler 👉 The Shiny Squirrel Wrangler is a short course that walks you through a simple framework for sorting every shiny idea. AND you get a pre-built Claude Skill that scores every new idea for you based on your actual goals, your season, and your bandwidth. (The Skill is already built. Already loaded with frameworks. You just customize it to your life, upload it, and it's ready to go!) Drop in an idea. Get a score. Know exactly what to chase next. *Premium members* — it's in the classroom right now for you! Note: This is an update (more of an overhaul, really...) to the course formerly known as "Turn Your Brain Sparks Into Business Assets." If you had access to that course, you now have access to The Shiny Squirrel Wrangler! It has been completely reworked and improved.
The Shiny Squirrel Wrangler
2 likes • Mar 31
LOL yes I have squirrels everywhere :)
1 like • Apr 3
@Olivia Radcliffe I was sitting in the car with my bestie watching the squirrels running around the oak tree in front of my house.
Cold coffee club archtype
Just met my Cold Coffee Club archetype and I'm Nurturer energy through and through ☕ I love creating space for others to feel heard and supported. Who else is a Nurturer? Drop yours below! 👇
Cold coffee club archtype
2 likes • Apr 3
Me Too
🥕 Carrot or 🥢 stick — which one actually gets you moving?
There are two kinds of motivators in this world: 🥕 The carrot people — they're chasing the reward. The income goal, the dream client, the feeling of finally launching that thing. The what's possible is what lights them up and gets them off the couch. 🥢 The stick people — they need a little pressure. A deadline, a consequence, a "I told people I was doing this and now I actually have to." The avoiding the ouch is what activates them. Neither one is wrong! I'll go first — I'm a carrot person with a stick backup plan. 😂 I can feel the vision all day long... and then also sign up for something public so there's an actual deadline. But anymore, I just find deadlines stressful and avoid them as much as possible. Drop yours below 👇 🥕 Carrot — the reward pulls me forward 🥢 Stick — the consequence pushes me forward 🤷 Both / It depends (And if you want to say why, I'm here for it — this stuff tells you so much about how to set up your systems and goals in a way that actually works for your brain.)
🥕 Carrot or 🥢 stick — which one actually gets you moving?
1 like • Apr 3
The stick though I do enjoy the pleasure of crossing it off my list.
Introduce Myself
Hey everyone! My name is Megan and I am the founder of Points Too Paradise where I teach you how to travel/vacation for practically free using credit card points. I went from barely affording one vacation a year to now taking 7+ vacations a year and saved over $30,000 last year on my travel. So excited to be here and would love to make some connections!
Introduce Myself
1 like • Mar 31
Hello Megan, that sounds fascinating
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Deborah Oppenehim
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Deborah leads monthly classes exploring the edges of sexuality. leader of Better Sex Skool community: https://www.skool.com/better-sex-9290

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