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Better Sex

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Private community for adults who want more connection, honesty, and better sex—without shame or pressure. Real conversation, practices, and support.

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7 contributions to the skool CLASSIFIEDS
#MissionMonday ~ What if Better Sex Could Save the World?
It is not about technique. It is about how we impact each other. When people feel valued in their bodies, clear in their boundaries, and honest about their desires, they move through the world differently. They fight cleaner. They love better. They do not need to dominate or disappear to feel powerful. The ultimate mission of the Better Sex Community is to help create a safe and sane world where individuals are valued, respected, and supported in community. When people feel empowered in their relationships, able to communicate clearly, honor their desires, and practice pleasure with integrity, that shift does not stay in the bedroom. It ripples outward into families, workplaces, leadership, and culture. Better sex. Better love. Better humans. Join us and do your part in creating a better world.https://www.skool.com/better-sex-9290
#MissionMonday ~ What if Better Sex Could Save the World?
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@Zak Smith It is indeed
#MetricsMonday and #MissionMonday - bonus post!
You may or may not have noticed that Metrics Monday got missed last week due to the holiday, and now this Monday I have a sick 4 yo and will not get to it again. I'm also thinking that with so many of the metrics being past 30 days, it might make more sense to do it once a month. I haven't made a decision yet, but I just wanted to give you and update and pop in and say "hi"! I hope everyone had a great weekend and that your week is off to a great start! So, instead of Metrics Monday, let's do #MissionMonday! IN A NEW POST, let us know what the mission of your community is. Then invite us to join the community, and then comment on someone else's post. Example (in new post): #MissionMonday - The CLASSIFIEDS The mission of the CLASSIFIEDS is to provide the best place where Skool group owners can promote the way they help others with their skills and expertise in their Skool groups. It is a public, searchable, spam-free place where we support each other in growing our communities for the betterment of everyone involved.
#MetricsMonday and #MissionMonday - bonus post!
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@Jenn Locklear Thank you for asking. Skool feels like a place where people actually want to have meaningful conversations, not just scroll past each other. It didn’t start as a grand plan. It grew out of years of working with people who were successful in every area of life except the one they rarely talked about honestly: intimacy. I kept seeing that the issue wasn’t sex itself, it was the lack of safe, skillful spaces to talk about it. At the same time, my own long-term relationship went through a flat season. Nothing dramatic, just enough to realize that love and pleasure are practices. So I created the kind of community I wish more people had. A place to learn, speak openly, and actually get better at relationship.
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@Shannon Boyer Oh thank you
What Makes a Course Successful
What a great session this morning! We talked about: - the role of courses in your Skool community, - why people might not be visiting your classroom, - what makes a successful course, - strategies for monetizing your group, and - questions you can ask yourself to determine if there is room for improvement in your course or community! The entire session was about 50 minutes long with 30 minutes of questions/discussion at the end. This replay is now only available inside my other community the "Your Best Course" Build Lab. You can get access for only $12/year. As part of this training, I am also offering a one-hour 1:1 Classroom Clarity Call for anyone who is interested in having an expert educator review their classroom/community and help you strategize best next steps for your classroom content. If you are interested, you can check it out here! 😊
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I watched the replay super helpful I have a course that I have run live twice and now I am feeling ready to turn it into a course.
Yes, relationships can be challenging
and they don’t have to be dull, distant, or sexless over time. Valentine’s season tends to bring this up. Not always in obvious ways. Sometimes it just highlights where we’ve been managing instead of connecting. Most couples don’t stop loving each other. They stop feeling safe enough to stay open. So they pull back. They react instead of speak. And the relationship slowly starts running on fear instead of connection. Fear doesn’t soften through insight alone. It changes when the nervous system experiences safety — and that happens when we practice new skills and habits together. That’s what the Power of Pleasure Summit is about (Feb 11–12, 2026). Real, practical tools for working with desire, fear, shame, and long-term intimacy, without self-blame or performance. I’ll be teaching Keeping the Spark Alive on Wednesday, Feb 11 at 1:45pm PT, sharing one simple shift to help couples move out of fear and back into connection. If this resonates, I’d love to have you there https://www.sexreimagined.com/a/2148204064/BDGmZtFa This is from the Better Sex Community - see you over there?
Yes, relationships can be challenging
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Goodness, thank you for your uplifting reflections. I truly believe relationship skills are the foundation of a happy life and they’re learnable. Relationship is a practice. It’s the daily art of staying curious, making repair, and choosing each other again and again… which is also how the spark stays alive. If you want to learn more, come join us inside the Better Sex Community.
#FriendFriday
It's time to share with your fellow members someone who you think is doing an amazing job in their community to help others! It can be a community that you are a part of or the community of someone you've met on Skool who you know deserves to be spotlighted. Please do NOT just drop a link. Here's the drill: 1. Leave your affiliate link (if you have one) in the comments below NOT in a new post. 2. Tag or mention the person who is the community owner. Also, send them a DM letting them know you mentioned them here - you'll brighten their day! 3. Include a description of who the group is for and why it is so amazing. And not necessarily in that order! Reminders: 1. Today is the last day to watch the What Makes a Course Successful masterclass. It's in the pinned posts and it's getting great reviews! 2. Today is also the last day to submit an application for the VIP tier of the Classifieds. Happy Friday all!
#FriendFriday
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I want to spotlight @Jill Hart for her generosity and the fun, supportive way she leads her community. Her group, The New You World Order, is an amazing space for coaches and creators who want to grow something meaningful without doing it alone. Thank you, Jill, for being such a bright example in this space. 💛 👉 https://www.skool.com/you-world-order/about?ref=d2f5fa2c26d647f19bcd238104e680eb
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Deborah Oppenehim
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Deborah leads monthly classes exploring the edges of sexuality. leader of Better Sex Skool community: https://www.skool.com/better-sex-9290

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Joined Feb 11, 2026
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