I'm getting photos sorted for my dating profile, what's the view on my outfit? I'm aiming too look intentional, composed and in motion

What to say in your intro? Share where you're from, your reason for joining, perhaps your favorite fragrance, watch or a picture of you dressed sharp! It's a small action, but a HUGE step in you getting value from this community becasue you go from being a lurker to an ACTIVE member. In fact men that introduce themselves are 10X more likely to the actions to becoming their best selves. Bonus Point - By introducing yourself you're guaranteed to level-up. Seriously, you'll get at least 5-20 likes/points (oftentimes more) which will move you to level 2 and possibly level 3. And just like that you have access to more of this community!

Heading out with the hunny for brunch and music across the river - in Sheffield, Alabama for Porchfest. Lots of local artists will be performing short sets - many on literal porches.

I'll be turning 42 soon, and needing to maintain a professional appearance. I have curly hair (like coily curly), and in college, I started learning some care and styling tricks to allow some length for curls without simply a frizzy fro. I could use some help in two areas: (1) What are some professional hairstyles that are a little bit longer, to leverage the curls, but are also fitting for my age? (2) What are some care and styling tips for someone with really curly hair?

Two separate incidents, both involving liquids and one involving far too much mud, meant that it was time for two pairs of my shoes to experience a deep cleaning. My oxblood wingtips looked the worse of the two after I decided to test the swamp-shoe moniker quite thoroughly, but I was actually more concerned about lasting damage to my double monks. Fortunately, both now look to be free of any long-term damage! Unfortunately, I didn't think to take any 'before' pictures... The first step was removing the caked-on mud from the wingtips. Next came using a magic eraser and a stiff brush on the soles. Then came the Saphir Reno-Mat for a thorough cleaning on both pairs. After a day of drying, I decided the double monks needed a second round - so they're a day behind in the process. Then, a thorough coating of Saphir Dubbin conditioner and another day to dry out. This was followed by a good brushing and wipe-down with a cotton chamois to remove any excess conditioner, a generous application of Saphir Renovateur, and yet another day to dry - followed, again, by a good brushing and wipe-down with a cotton chamois. This is where the double-monks currently sit. They will get the same follow-up treatment as the wingtips, hopefully tomorrow - just using slightly different colors. 😁 With the wingtips ready for a full shine, that process began. It started with two light coats of Saphir Pommadier Cream polish in Hermes Red over the entire shoe, each followed by 5-10 minutes of drying time and a good brushing with a horse-hair brush. Next, a very light coat of Angelus Shoe Wax polish in Oxblood over the entire shoe, again followed by 5-10 minutes of drying time and a good brushing with a horse-hair brush. Now, it was time to focus on the toes - so I prepared for a mirror polish... Step one is assembling the necessities: - A 20%/80% mixture of isopropyl alcohol and distilled water, respectively. - A large, single piece of ice (I use a large, clear, cube of ice from one of my whiskey molds). - A small bowl to hold the ice and a couple of tablespoons of the alcohol-water mixture. - A fresh, clean, cotton buffing cloth. - A heat gun. - The polishes: Angelus Oxblood, Saphir Mirror Gloss, & Angelus Black. - A good show, movie, or set of videos queued up on the Fire TV Stick.