So wife and I ended the night at Applebees before heading home. Yes we r home now Anyways, while eating dinner I always watch the folks around us , not just for our protection by watching the doors and sizing up everyone in the joint. I also watch what people eat and more so what they drink! I’d say 2/3 of the people are mostly normal and relaxing after the day they have had. But the last 1/3 are like the last guy whom sat at the bar before we left, you could see the chip on his shoulder, wasn’t quiet and wanted shots of jageir , I'm sure I just slaughtered that spelling . But these are the types to be very careful of. Those are the types to keep an extra eye on . Please don’t take me wrong on this, im not trying to generalize a bunch of people into one group. But the ones that come in like this are fly by the seat of their pants and are very unreadable both on mindset im actions. We have already had this discussion about being the quiet person in the room commanding respect from those around us. Tonight I chatted with one of our fav bar tenders and wife and I chalked up a conversation with the couple sitting to the left of us whom come to find out lived just below my grandparents and are now local to our area . Next I chalked up a conversation with a retired gent whom used to drive commercial busses all over Florida across the bar from us . I made those conversations to let others understand I was commanding respect and had control of the conversations while showing respect to those I was talking to. Outside of the conversations I was the quiet gent sitting and eating dinner. This is why we are Gentlemen, we have to hold ourselves to a much higher level than those around us.