Okay just kidding. It ain’t that dramatic. I do have a dad group though. It’s called Extraordinary Dads. The purpose is simple… it’s a space for ordinary dads that want to show up for their families in extraordinary ways through mastering our mindsets, making everyday moments count, and building a legacy that lasts. I usually put a lot of thought into sharing how the group came about, touching on relatable points of fatherhood. Today I just want to put it out to you. If you’re a dad - I want you to join my group. I’m looking for high engagement, hungry for growth dads that can jump in and help the community in its formation and forward momentum. I hope you’ll join.

Does your home feel like it's working against you? Clutter isn't just physical — it's the mental weight you carry all day. I run a community called Cozyism, where we help people reclaim calm spaces inside and out. Join now, invite 2 friends and if they join, you ALL get a free month of Premium (worth $147). Check out Cozyism

It almost guts your own health to have to suddenly take care of someone you love. The largest cohort of Americans right now is Baby Boomers, living their lives into their 80s, 90s and beyond. But if you suddenly have to care for a Boomer, what can you do that ensures your own health stays above the line? I say, UPGRADE YOUR SELF-CARE--how you take care of you--to a simple, holistic plan of action to meet the deep changes head on. I'm not an M.D., but I used a plan that adjusted my mindset and attitude to help me take care of my mother for five years. I got her meds down from 5 to 1 and helped her transition more sweetly, with zero bedsores, as she ended her 83yo journey. You too can upgrade your personal self-care so it assists you AND your loved one. Just use the 3 self-care (boosted to the higher octave--> "self-healing") techniques that I used-- 1. Breathwork and meditation 2. Essential oils and aromatics 3. Hand healing I AM CALLING ON YOU NEW CAREGIVERS (and you leaders of caregiving entities). Don't get crushed under the burdens. With self-healing techniques you can... - Adopt an easy wakeup routine - Adopt an easy bedtime routine - Go back to sleep after caregiving disruption - Enhance food nutrition - De-stress quickly - Be more resilient when its called for --and this is more often than not. - You CAN feel good—not pressured—into making wellness choices that support tranquility in the midst of the upset. It's your human right! And after the home health aide goes home (if you have one), the real care falls to you anyway. Caretaking is a complex industry. Even with 24/7 support (which can take a long minute kick in) your sudden involvement requires SPEEDY STEPS to meet the challenge. Step 1. Gift yourself-- 🎁 a goody bag of health-preserving actions (building towards your arsenal) 🎁 a set of simple new habits for little cost (and yet, generous benefits) 🎁 the commitment to your own self-healing, since "the body heals itself"

Our drop-social, which I am now affectionately referring to as the WATERCOOLER, is happening tomorrow. How it works: the Skool meeting room is open for 6 hours, and you can drop in or out as you are available. You might drop in to chat with 10 people, or you might be the only one there - that's part of the fun! To increase the likelihood of meeting people, tag them, send them a DM inviting them, or do as others like to do and take a screenshot of whoever you are chatting with, post it in the community, and invite others to join you. After the Frenzy today where you are making tons of connections and getting to know more people, why not drop in to the WATERCOOLER tomorrow and get to know each other more? Check the calendar for more information on times in your location!

Fire Between Us Your hands trace lines I can’t resist, A burning touch, a fleeting kiss. The heat between us cannot lie, A spark that dances, fierce and high. Our bodies move in secret rhythm, Each gasp, each moan, a subtle prism. The night itself conspires to stay, And bend around our wild play. No words can match the fire we speak, A language raw, yet soft, unique. The air is thick with whispered sin, And every touch draws me within. I tremble as your gaze holds mine, A storm of pleasure, sharp, divine. We fall together, lose control, Inferno burns through heart and soul.