Guys often ask me for the nuts and bolts practical workings of multiple women. But what does it LOOK like in practice. I keep trying to explain that it's in all the little moments, and it's from the beginning. From this alone guys fail. They want to enter into boyfriend mode, and then from there go to harem mode. No. Doesn't work. You start in Harem mode. You screen out girls who don't fit. You never promise anything except what it is. And you ENJOY it.