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The Drowning Man

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You're not broken. You're drowning. There's a difference — and a way out.

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66 contributions to The Drowning Man
The Re-Audit Experiment
A few of you have taken the DMI audit more than once. I noticed. One man just came back after 18 days. His score dropped 14 points. His tier shifted. His pattern shifted. He went from Treading Water to Coming Up For Air — and from The Split to The Flinch, which is a fundamentally different structural problem. Easier to work with. 14 points. 18 days. I don't know exactly what he changed. That's what makes this interesting from further understanding StateMaxxing. Here's what I want to do: I'm building a small dataset of before/after audits taken 60–90 days apart. If you've done meaningful work in that window — on the material, on your state, on your patterns — I want your numbers. Re-take the audit at thedrowningman.com I will run the data and send you back a personalised progress read — not the standard report, something more targeted to the change. This is an experiment. I'm gathering the first real data on how fast these indicators actually move when men are doing the work. Early signs suggest meaningful tier-level shifts are possible inside a month. -- On a note related to StateMaxxing — The Reprogramming is done. Vol. 1 is complete. Four tapes: BE PRESENT → BE COMPLETE → BE READY → BE PLAYFUL. They are now in their final version. The intro tape lands shortly (probably tomorrow), and then after that the Early Bird pricing is done. The fastest way I've found to accelerate state-level change is encoded into this material. Ericksonian induction. Pavlovian anchoring. Subliminal activation that works on multiple levels. The same mechanics used to programme assassins in MKUltra and project Artichoke, applied to overriding nice guy conditioning at the source. A weapon like this has never been created before for this purpose. Your subconscious cannot distinguish between a vividly imagined experience and a real one. That's not a metaphor. That's an exploit. Super proud of how these turned out. This represents my most important work so far to helping change the life of the drowning man. I will push this farther in a volume 2 (more on this another time, but it's going to be fucking wild, basically merging complex anchors together to give you the Alpha Buddha energetic toolkit to run a life of Daddy/Dominant energy with women, put the holes in their place and have them love it kind of thing). And then after that I consider that the core stack of information and direct state change is complete and focus on the next phase: Some new long form content, and the next phase of fun: How to build a Harem.
The Re-Audit Experiment
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@Julian Z fucking awesome brother - pump your mind full of the mind control in the middle and see if you can start to shake things loose
Time to kill the beta before he kills you
Most of what exists in this space is information. Theory. Strategy. But the problem isn't that these men don't know what to do. They can tell you exactly what's wrong with them in real time, at least the symptoms and ways in which they are falling short, and yet still go run the same pattern. Information doesn't touch the part of the system that's actually broken. So I went a different direction using a unique set of skills that have never been applied in this way to this problem before. I've spent the last few months building something that uses related psychological techniques to the ones I share — Ericksonian hypnosis, Pavlovian anchoring, subliminal state activation, psychic driving — applied directly, at depth, to burn nice guy conditioning out at the root. Not explain it. Not reframe it. Remove it. The inspiration was MKUltra. The CIA spent decades developing methods to reprogram ordinary men at the level of instinct — below memory, below choice, below conscious resistance. I once saw an elite mentalist use those methods to recreate hypnotic assasins. I knew the techniques worked. All I was missing was the time and interest to apply it to this particular problem. I've taken that same methodology and pointed it at the one thing that's actually stopping nice guys: their state. Four states. Each one anchors it to a physical trigger. The minimum viable stack to show up as the man you already know you could be. Think of The Drowning Man as a map/direct pointing. This operates directly on the nervous system. Raw state change. No need to learn anything. I put A LOT into this one and it packs an absolute gut punch that will rewire you. I genuinely think it's a novel approach to a problem this space has been circling for years and the start of taking this work to the next level. Please let me know what you think below, brothers.
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@Joshua Lewis thanks very much, it was a very calculated line, and it appears in the material directly too.
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@Aaron Elliott spot on 🔥
Recognition & Reward of Awesome Progress
The good times are just getting started! Big shout out to @Bojan Kitanovic Bo is really the epitome of inner transformation and is reshaping his life in awesome ways. Such a night and day change that it is truly inspiring. A lot of guys here would benefit from his journey and reflections. I do encourage the new brothers in particular who are feeling like this stuff is just impossible to overcome to reach out and have a virtual coffee together. Been thinking what perks and rewards I can drop for you guys. Bo is giving me the occasion to finally start the practice of reward drops. As you may have noticed I am obsessively updating and improving all the workflows behind the services. (You guys can't imagine the level of obsessive detail that goes into this stuff 😂) Recently I added two of the highest performance rated Tinder photos (according to the data science of it all) into my expanding source file archive for the Dating Profile Cheat Code (you can access it via the Classroom). I have been refining them and I ran the pipeline over them for you Bo. Enjoy adding them to your arsenal of digital game assets. Drop a like for brother Bo!
Recognition & Reward of Awesome Progress
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@Bojan Kitanovic amen to that brother 🍻
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@Utku Ayhan haha trying my best 🍻
IRL EVENTS
Hey guys, let me know what you want. If you ever wondered what The Drowning Man version of Date With Destiny (the famous Tony Robbins) workshop would look like and want to find out. We can do this from a loose same city, low structure, all the way to a full residential catered game-house with structured workshop events, daily set pieces, and transformational fun. Depends on you guys. Let me know what you really want in the In person event questionnaire I set up a simple possibility range to see what the appetite is like. If you guys are up for it, we can make some very fun and interesting things happen soo. I am only a few weeks away from being able to set up events like this. My formal company structure is nearly complete. Let's see if Summer is going to be interesting!
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STATEMAXX 4/20 CHALLENGE
Three weeks. Two audits. One winner. Run the DMI audit at least twice between now (April 20th) and May 11th — the second one at least a week after the first. Be sure to enter your email (the same email every time). That's it! A the end everyone who did the audits will get entered into a random draw. Winner gets two custom AI-generated profile images built specifically for you — the kind of visual that broadcasts the right signal before you've said a word. The audit takes 3 minutes. The data it gives you is worth far more than that. Two data points is where the picture starts. You'll see movement you didn't know was happening — or you'll see exactly where the pattern is holding you in place. Either way, you'll know something you didn't know before. If you haven't done an audit yet, check out State Audit in the Classroom tab. First audit, then re-audit. Let's see what three weeks of awareness does. Who's in?
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