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Dark brown or Light brown?
Hey gents, I got these fabric belts at the thrift store, which one would go best with this overcoat? Thanks!
Dark brown or Light brown?
6 likes • Sep 1
Dark brown - it matches the collar pretty closely
4 likes • Sep 2
@Simeon Beiler You certainly could...but I think the shade is close enough that it's not a big deal
The Sweet Spot between Casual and Classy: How do you Dress Well without a Daily Suit?
A hearty hello to you all! My name is Nathan, I just turned 27 and I'm just getting started on learning about the world of men's fashion. As someone with High Functioning Autism, I live life best by following clear rules that make sense, but Fashion doesn't have an instruction book. So I come today asking for advice on how to start dressing for who I want to be. Don't get me wrong, I have a few well tailored and professional suits already for when I'm where I want to be, but as someone in the heat of Tennessee, I can't be wearing full 3 piece suits with nowhere to be. I also feel past the point where daily tees and work pants reflect who I want to be. In short, I want the medium between. Classy yet comfortable, relaxed yet clean, Confident in a comfortable setting. So far, I've only found one outfit that really fits the bill. A simple, lightweight khaki tech pant, paired with a short sleeve white linen button down shirt. It's lightweight, feels classy, yet not over the top or showy. That simple outfit feels so good to wear, though, and I want that feeling every day. I'm tired of my wardrobe looking like a depressed teen's corner chair. I want to feel like I matter to myself, and that means working on making my casual wardrobe a cut above tees and jeans. I'm looking for advice, recommendations for pieces or brands that feel like they are in that sweet spot between, and inspiration for shopping. I'm not concerned too much with budget, but please keep in mind I live in a humid and temperate urban environment.
1 like • Sep 1
I'm in Houston so hot like you have it. I would recommend some linen button downs and roll up the sleeves. That is kind of my "go-to" to look respectable while in this heat.
Jun 3 • 
OOTD 👔
OOTD - Wednesday 3 May
It’s getting colder, a top of 9C (48F) today and only 7C (44F) on the way to take my daughter to school. We left early so we could grab a coffee to warm ourselves up. I love this Tie from OTAA, the colour is so bold and amazing. I really dont think the pictures show it enough. Grabbed the lighter Grey Coat today to match with the lighter Blue suit. I am quite happy with how this ensemble came together. Todays outfit consists of: Country Road Double Breasted Herringbone 100% Fine Wool Overcoat in Graphite M.J. Bale Ballard Suit in True Blue made from a Super 110’s Merino wool cloth Charles Tyrwhitt Non-Iron Royal Oxford Windowpane Check Shirt in Steel Blue OTAA Bondi Navy Blue Pinstripe OTAA Shining Silver Tie Clip OTAA White Pocket Square with Sky Blue Edge OTAA Jack O’ Cups Shattuckite Skull Bracelet Monterey Black Bead Bracelet OTAA Happy Penguin Socks Ecco Vitrus Penny Loafer Brixton Brood Cap * panel design in Washed Navy and Aluminium SOTD - Mancera Red Tobacco WOTD Islander Greenport
OOTD - Wednesday 3 May
3 likes • Jun 5
Love the watch!
6 years in the making: Graduating Law School
Today ended a chapter of my life i started 6 years ago when I signed up to take the LSAT. (It ended up bring the first ever LSAT to be administered remotely due to COVID restrictions). Yesterday I was hooded by one of my favorite professors and today I officially graduated with a Juris Doctorate from the Thurgood Marshall School of Law. While it may not have been fully proper, I left the top few inches of my regalia open showing my tie. The burgundy Oscar de la Renta tie belonged to my father who passed away from lung cancer in Oct 2016. Wearing it through graduation I felt honored his memory and that he would have been proud. I am thus far the first member of my immediate family with a bachelor's degree, and now the first with a professional degree. I was thankful to have the support of my loving wife, two daughters and In-laws throughout this journey who have been motivation and inspiration for one of the longest-path goals of my life. In 87 days, I will take the Texas Bar exam and start the next phase of my life.
6 years in the making: Graduating Law School
2 likes • May 13
Congrats!
WINNER for the "Turning Point" Challenge 🥁🥁🥁
Gents - this challenge was a blast! We had so many transformation and turning-point stories shared, and every single one was inspiring in its own way. Seeing you guys show up, reflect, and take action is exactly what this community is about. Now… for the winner 🥁🥁🥁 🏆 WINNER: @Sean Kavanaugh Sean’s turning point started with years of feeling limited by his size — wearing looser clothes to hide, tailoring only for length, and cycling through “progress… then back to old habits.” Then life changed the trajectory. He stepped into a new chapter, started carrying himself differently, and eventually hit the real wake-up call: About 18 months ago, he woke up with his knees hurting and decided, “Enough is enough.” He committed to keto and consistent workouts — and that kickstarted not just weight loss, but a complete style evolution. What changed for Sean: - He’s down 75 pounds, with another 15–20 to go - Fit became the priority — not “whatever works,” but “what actually looks sharp” - He rebuilt his wardrobe intelligently (thrift + resale + tailoring) as his body changed - He leveled up so much that in December he bought an off-the-rack suit that only needed a hem — not a full reconstruction And the best part? He didn’t keep it to himself. He posts consistently, tracks his progress, and credits the community for helping him feel more confident in who he is — and where he’s going. @Sean Kavanaugh — we're proud of you! Everyone else: keep those stories coming in the community feed. This is how we build momentum — one decision, one upgrade, one win at a time!
WINNER for the "Turning Point" Challenge 🥁🥁🥁
11 likes • Jan 23
Congrats and well deserved!!
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Brett Summerlin
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Looking forward to enhancing my style and hopefully helping others along the way!

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