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Life School w/ Dr. Mark

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5 contributions to Life School w/ Dr. Mark
Life Skool Helped Me Attain My Goal Today
I've been at Internship all day and had 4 awesome therapy sessions with clients. It's hard, taxing work, but it's rewarding and reminds me why I'm in the field. I was going to drive home, leaving at 5:45 pm (later than usual and it's an hour commute back), but I decided to stop by my school's library to finish an assignment due tomorrow night. When I knocked that out, I felt fatigued and tired since I haven't eaten yet, but I knew that once I ate I would clock out for the night. I debated putting my reading on hold (note: my weekly goal is to read 5 pages a day, at least 4/7 days of the week), and I've been struggling for weeks to actually attain my goal even though it's important to me. But I said "it's just 5 pages, and if I do it right now before I leave the library, I'll get it done and I can report to @Govind that I went the extra mile to crush it." It's such a minor win, but I thought I'd share it with you guys because I've made so many excuses about my reading but I'm hoping to meet my quota this time. Our Life Skool call yesterday helped me feel energized to really go for the gold. These goals are meant to keep me grounded and stay motivated, rain or shine, so I'm not going to let my tiredness stop me this time! (Even if that won't always be the case). Who's with me to set some goals and make our dreams come true!? Thank you Life Skool, What's a minor win that you guys have had this week?
2 likes • Feb 12
Great work @Casey Kaufman, Small goals being reached like that do often feel silly, but I notice that those are the things that made my most productive times so effective. Just a bunch of small things like that parlayed into a bigger payout at the end. The fact that you are still striving to hit this goal even though you have struggled to do it in the past is an incredible attitude, and one I hope to develop. A minor win I had today was to text my accountability partner to write down their goals for the day in our shared document. They have been quite busy lately and so have I, and in previous times I would not have texted them and let it slide saying "they are really busy, they will pick it back up when things get a bit more manageable", but this is just a fallacy we tell ourselves. Being able to stay accountable through hectic times is what makes those times more managaeable, so I texted them to stay on top of what we both said we would do and they appreciated it. Like I said, in past times I would have let it go and probably would have spiraled into stopping the document in its totality, but instead I did that and then came here to share it with all of you. The minor wins are sometimes the things that keep us rolling that rock up the mountain, so I will not take this one for granted or any other ones that follow.
Great call today! Glad I showed up.
Thank you to @Govind Nadathur and @Casey Kaufman for today's call. Love getting to hear how you do your high performance call with each other and how it works for you both. Also love how you do a nightly (daily) recap to share strengths & struggles - brilliant. @Mark Matthews has this hoodie I love that says "Honor the Struggle". So - In that vibe I'll share a struggle I've been working on (maybe others will do the same). My old default is staying up late (night owl) - and yet I've realized that I love getting up early (5 or 6am). When I do get up early, I have the best days. It's easier to get my morning routine in (Growth Day Journal + get outside and move). But...of course it's hard to get up early when I'd go to bed late (1 or 2am). It's an old/bad habit that doesn't serve me (like I don't want the day to end), even though my body is sending me all the cues that it's ready for sleep. The hack I've figured out...is to follow my wife to bed (usually 10pm) and then read (lights out no later than 11pm). Holy cow what a difference it makes (not just for me but also for my connection with my wife - awesome high quality time together). It also leads to even more awesome high quality conversations & connection in the mornings (those have been a gamechanger for our marriage). The trick for me is the same universal/1st principal of sticking to routines/rituals/inputs that work with consistency. I'm making progress (not perfect) and not judging myself when I miss. I just get back to what works (follow my wife to bed - so simple). Love the community @Mark Matthews & @Govind Nadathur are building here (amazing). Seth Godin defines culture (community) as 'people like us do things like this'. Who wants to share next? What are some struggles you're dealing with? P.S. Being vulnerable is a leadership quality I choose to embody.
3 likes • Feb 3
I share that same gratefulness for @Govind Nadathur and @Casey Kaufman for speaking with us on Sunday. Great initiative @Warren Gibbons, and what great vulnerability to talk about what you have been struggling with, the same goes to @Govind Nadathur and @Deacon Humbert . I suppose sharing mine may be helpful as well. I struggle with receiving praise, help, and compassion; however, as you may know if you have struggled with this, it also means that struggle giving those things as well. I have always felt unworthy of receiving them, like I was lucky and that the praise should be given to the people around me, and that the help should go to people who need it more than me, and that I was undeserving of compassion. What I have realized after reading is that not being able to receive help and praise has spilled over into giving those things. I always attach those same feelings I feel when others give them to me, for when I give it to others, which is certainly not serving me or those around me. I have been reading a great book called "The Gifts of Imperfection" by Rene Brown, and she talks the concept of being able to receive in full in order to give them in their fullest capacity. It is no doubt a long road to break these automatic habits, but I am proud that I recognized them and working towards improvement.
1 like • Feb 5
@Warren Gibbons thank you for this really great perspective. Your whole comment is helpful and thought provoking, especially the bill analogy!
2/8 Call
This Sunday, 2/8 at 4:30 PM...get ready! We’re coming together to laugh, reflect, and challenge ourselves to become high performers for others — through real wins, real struggles, and real action. Special shoutout: @Warren Gibbons will be leading part of the session and sharing his perspective, so expect insight and good energy. He will be sharing with us an outstanding lesson on the importance of high performance TRACKING! We’re building the habit of showing up better for the people and world around us. If you have anyone that you think would LOVE this community call...send em' our way! Can't wait to see you all there -- join through the Skool Calendar or click this link: https://www.skool.com/live/sQMVrsT5yq7 P.S. How are your high performance meetings/conversations going? Casey and I can't wait for ours coming up! - Govind
2 likes • Feb 5
I am looking for to what you have to teach us @Warren Gibbons! I hope everyone has found that person they can confide in and grow with!
First Weekly Call!
What is going on incredible people?! Buckle up...get ready...for our FIRST group weekly call this Sunday at 4:30 P.M.! Join us here: https://www.skool.com/live/qWVRJcmjfyk Together, we will get to know each other, and get excited to grow together as part of this High Performance Community. This is a place where we are going to build close, strong and authentic relationships with high performers. We're going to become leaders in our lives, our careers, and pioneer the future! My friend Casey will be a speaker & sharing a POWERFUL practice & ritual of high performers use to accelerate their growth which you can adopt! Can't wait to meet you all. - Govind
2 likes • Jan 28
This is great news! I look forward to meeting everyone!
Welcome to Life School w/ Dr. Mark Matthes
Welcome to Life School with Dr. Mark Matthews (BETA). This is a practical, high-standards community for people who are ready to elevate how they live, work, and lead—so their influence becomes life-changing for themselves and the people around them. We believe leadership isn’t a title. It’s how you show up—consistently, under pressure, and in service of what matters. “Life School” exists because most people were never taught the skills that actually determine life outcomes: - how to build momentum - how to regulate emotions under stress - how to communicate powerfully - how to hold standards when motivation fades - how to lead with integrity in real relationships and real work What You’ll Build Here Inside the group you’ll get frameworks, prompts, and implementation guidance to develop: - Personal Leadership — discipline, identity, emotional self-mastery, confidence - Relational Influence — communication, boundaries, trust, presence - Meaningful Impact — purpose, contribution, service, legacy The Approach I’m Dr. Mark Matthews, PhD, a Certified High Performance Coach. My approach blends practical psychology with high performance—turning insight into action you can apply immediately, without hype, perfectionism, or burnout culture. BETA Details This is a BETA group. The first members are the founding circle. You’ll get early access to the core frameworks as they’re built—and you’ll help shape what we create together. Start Here Introduce yourself with: 1. Where are you located? 2. What area of your life most needs a “reset” right now? 3. Where do you want to create life-changing influence in the next 90 days? 4. What support would help you most?
4 likes • Jan 23
Hello, my name is Anderson Ogle, but you can call me Andy. I am a student at The Ohio State University in Columbus, Ohio. I would say my curiosity and creativity needs a reset, and I want to create life changing influence in that domain of my life. Having others keeping me accountable and pushing me towards doing these things would be most helpful!
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Undergraduate at The Ohio State University. I want to create and collaborate with others to better understand myself and the world around me.

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