Is it crazy to think that doing inner work could be the key to shifting outer circumstances? Recently I put my house in Austin Texas up for sale… I’ve had a shift in values over the last few years and as a result have wanted to own less materialistic things Owning an investment house became mental bandwidth that included finding renters, paying for repairs and high property taxes out here in Texas As a result about 5 months ago I decided… I am going to SELL it and be free of it At the suggestion of the real estate agent I put in about 40K to make it perfect with the intention that it will sell fast and I’d get back what I put in After the repairs and upgrades in February we put it on the market For weeks there was a lot of buzz with it People seeing it saying they liked it, open houses, etc However no offers came through in the first month And to be honest…. The market in Austin has been slow and down for the last few years Was I energetically attracted to it selling and holding energy that was blocking it from selling? If the outer reality is a reflection of the inner, what do I need to shift? In that frustration I was doing some inner reflection and had some big realizations… The way I related to the house was similar emotion to childhood I felt trapped by the house… it felt "not fair" (very similar to childhood energy where I felt stuck with controlling step mom) I bought when the market was growing and then it tanked I felt the burden of the house and that I was STUCK in it And NOW it’s not selling and I still feel trapped I was reading a book one night on healing the inner child and had a huge realization I felt "victim" to the situation. I was carrying the energy of this is happening TO ME The house was a reflection of how I felt about it and how I was showing up I also realized I was waiting to feel free ONCE the house sold So in this awareness I made a choice before falling asleep that night… I am not a victim. I can handle it. I will do what I need to do and be patient. God/the divine can take the wheel

The energy in this community is SO HIGH this past week and I feel like everyone’s getting along so well and being so positive abs supportive to each other. We’re in the honeymoon phase as a community though, and as time goes on, maybe you’ll start to find some people you don’t vibe with as much as others, or maybe you can’t stand them at all. I challenge you to step back and observe these situations as they arise and look at it as a chance to practice what your higher self would truly do. Still find a way to be nice and supportive, and if you get in a debate, read with an open heart and respond from the heart. Don’t react from the ego. Even if you feel intensely passionate about the topic, approach every conversation in this community with nothing but unconditional love. I say this because I’d love to see everyone grow even more and one way to do that is to approach every situation with an open mind and heart that it will help teach you something valuable. No one is better than anyone, for we are all one and part of the same energies. Humans are 99.9% the same, so don’t let that 0.1% get in the way of seeing someone fully and trying to understand where they’re coming from. Keep the energy high and if you need help, reach out. So many beautiful souls here who are more than willing to go above and beyond for someone else! Much love! Stay amazing! And remember… You’re already everything you’re looking for 🙏🏻❤️

My ex and I have been broken up for a year and I thought I had gotten over him but yesterday and today I found myself missing him and wanting his company and love. I had a dream about him and I woke up sad. I wanted to hug him and give him love and feel his energy, feel him comforting me. We didn’t end on good terms and I want to talk to him to let him know I still have love for him and apologize for the times I was not good to him, however, I think he still has me blocked. I had him blocked up until today because I was contemplating on reaching out to him. I don’t want to be on bad terms because although we had bad moments and did things we shouldn’t have to each other, our love was beautiful and very raw when we were not selfish. I miss feeling so connected to his soul. I thought I wouldn’t miss him since it’s been a year and although I am doing better than I was when we initially broke up, I still miss the wholesome moments and I find myself crying wanting to fix things with him and hoping that he also wants to fix things with me and that this time we won’t be selfish and our relationship will be stronger and healthier. He was my first serious relationship so I don’t know if I will always have love for him and if I do I am scared that I’ll never be satisfied with my next boyfriend since I’ll always have some love for this ex and I’ll be missing him on certain occasions like his birthday or even just a random day. Have any of you fully gotten over an ex to where you no longer get sad remembering happy moments and what helped? Is it possible to still be in a satisfying relationship while still missing and thinking about those wholesome moments you had with an ex or even just the little things like a song or a band? I thought I was ready to start dating again but now I’m not so sure.

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leave the homework to the "GAP worksheet here" (its attached to this post) what's your vibrational set point? watch the video and complete the worksheet below https://vimeo.com/928848231/491fb4cbdb YOUR VIBRATIONAL SET POINT In this video, you’ll find out more about your current self and how you’re currently thinking, feeling and acting. You’ll be able to notice the gap between that, and the vibrational you of how you would ideally think, feel and act. The importance of this is that without a goal and without a general intention, we tend to stay stagnant. We tend to stay in the autopilot mind of thinking, feeling and acting equal to that version of ourselves. What happens is when it comes to your vibrational setpoint, you want to become aware of your vibration on a scale of 1 to 10. When you make a shift in consciousness, you will feel different. OVERVIEW: 0:02- Intro 0:50- Your Vibrational Set Point 2:48- Current Self 4:12- Ideal Self 5:22- Actions + Changes 6:11- Homework CURRENT SELF This is a process about becoming aware. Where do you feel like you currently are on a scale of 1 to 10? Then what you want to become aware of is: - What are your current beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and actions, where are you right now?  - What are you currently thinking? - List out some of the dominant thoughts.  - Do you have dominant beliefs? What dominant actions were you taking?  - Meditate and go through this process. You may become aware of a lot more of this than you were right now, but you got to become aware of where you currently are. - Are you honest with yourself?  - What are the common patterns in your relationships? - What kind of people do you attract in your life? What kind of beliefs do you have about people and about love? - What are your beliefs about money and abundance?  IDEAL SELF What you want to become aware of is: - Who is your ideal self? - How do you think, feel and act as that version of you? - What kind of beliefs do you have? - What kind of relationships do you have? - What kind of energy do you and your body have? Are you more playful?  - What actions do you take? What kind of habits do you have? - Does this version of you go to the gym or do yoga? Go for walks?