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The Illusion of Progress
Today's quote from the book: “I was mistaking preparation for progress.” Doing What You Know, Chapter 9, p. 167 A lot of people stay busy but don’t actually move forward. They plan, organize, learn, and refine. From the outside, it looks like effort. On the inside, it feels like progress. But nothing is changing. That’s the trap. Preparation feels productive because it keeps you engaged without forcing you to take a real risk. You can stay in that space for a long time and still feel like you’re doing something meaningful. Until you realize you’re not moving. Progress only begins when preparation turns into execution. When you stop adjusting and start acting, even if it’s not perfect. That’s where things finally begin to shift.
The Illusion of Progress
1 like • 22d
Preparation is pre execution getting ready to take action all the way to the finishline.
Today's Friday Community video
Most people aren’t stuck because they don’t know what to do. They’re stuck because they’re not executing consistently. In this episode, I break down why execution is where everything either moves forward or falls apart, and how small, daily actions create real momentum over time. If you’ve been planning, thinking, or waiting for the right moment, this will help you shift into action and start building results.
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Agreed 💯 thanks @Ray Thigpen Messy. Uncertain. Uncomfortable. Now go ahead & make a move. One has enough information and planning. You can do it now you know what you need to do.
Are You Talking Yourself Out of It?
How do I stop being the person who talks myself out of progress… and become the person who follows through anyway? That’s not a motivation problem—it’s a pattern problem. And patterns can be rewired. 🔧 Let’s break it down in a way you can actually use day-to-day. 🧠 1. See the Pattern Clearly (This is the switch) Most self-sabotage follows a loop: Trigger → Thought → Feeling → Action → Result Example: Trigger: “I feel tired” Thought: “I’ll skip today” Feeling: Relief Action: Don’t go Result: Guilt + no progress 👉 The brain learns: “Skipping feels good in the moment” 🔄 Rewire it (simple illustration) Think of it like a path in grass: Old path = easy, worn down (skip, delay, quit) New path = overgrown (show up, push through) At first, walking the new path feels harder. But the more you walk it, the clearer it becomes. ⚡ 2. Stop Negotiating With Yourself The biggest trap? 👉 “I’ll decide based on how I feel.” Feelings are unstable. Discipline isn’t. Instead, install a rule: “I don’t decide. I follow the plan.” Examples: “If it’s session time → I go. No debate.” “If it’s meal time → I eat what I planned.” 🧩 Think of it like brushing your teeth—you don’t negotiate that. 🧩 3. Lower the Entry Barrier (This is huge) Your brain resists big effort, not small action. So change the rule: ❌ “I have to smash a full workout” ✅ “I just need to show up for 5 minutes” Funny thing? Once you start… you usually keep going. 👉 Showing up is the real win. 🔁 4. Replace Identity (Not Just Habits) If your identity is: “I’m someone who struggles with consistency” You’ll keep proving that true. Swap it to: “I’m someone who shows up—even when I don’t feel like it.” Then prove it with small actions. 🪞 Illustration Imagine two versions of you: Old You ve New You Waits to feel ready - Moves before feeling ready. Negotiates - Follows rules. Focuses on comfort - Focuses on direction. 👉 You don’t “become” the new version first. You act like them → then you become them. 🔥 5. Use the “3-2-1 Move” Trick
Are You Talking Yourself Out of It?
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Its autumn low cloud & alot of wet weather lately here in NZ. I went yesterday. Arrived at BBM after a team meeting. I have wondered at times should I (watching the low cloud weather) even though I'll just make it there, or times class has already begun. . So this particular day I walked in waved the scanner and it beeped. It was a workout in pairs. I read the play and stepped in to an invite with a smile hey partner. Grateful i put my feelings to silent mode. It was a great set. After the set body systems were lit and firing off invigorating energy that lasted hours later.
Completion
“What’s ONE thing you can complete in the next 30 minutes?”
Completion
1 like • Apr 3
Good morning Its Saturday 4 April 2026. 1:04am. One thing is to cllose my eyes get to sleep in order to wake up and leave by 730am. Have a great day.
👉 Have you experienced this shift before?
The wrong people leave when you start valuing yourself.
2 likes • Apr 3
“Yes — some people leave when they can no longer access the old you.” They just leave with no explanation as well.
1 like • Apr 3
@Shawn Ziem 👉💯
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Giving Always Giving All That is Vital then Important.

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