Today I asked my mom why women are always forgive their abusive husbands and live with them despite him being brutal to her and even someone who beat her. My mom told me a scolding way God forbid you be in that situation then you know why women forgive and live. I am from Pakistan and from a dysfunctional family.I am grown up seeing husbands being brutal to their wives and despite all odds even if she is able to earn and independent she lives with him.and many cases husbands are not even bearing the financial responsibility,and even bad mouth her and beat her but she is one taking care of him and children and living there. Thats why I hate marriage. In Pakistan you get married,then you are just there wether miserable or happy. It triggers me in many ways.I hate it.

Sisters during an EID festival where I live, a brother approached me and stated he was seeking marriage. We exchanged contact information, we met at the masjid the next day and he took me to dinner after to discuss a Wali, intentions, etc. Things took an EXTREME turn as I thought it was going well it became terrible. We met up again for tacos, to discuss him meeting my father (wali), a timeline, etc. He had me pay for the meal, stated that leaders deserve to get there meals paid for and then stated that he felt me and him weren't compatible. He presented me with a list and told me all my rights are going to be taken away and said that he is in charge. The list consisted of things such as a curfew, how he wanted me to cover, etc. a Wali wasn't even involved at this point. He then texted me round 12am and asked to come to my house and dm'ed me on instagram asking if I wanted to get "folded like a pretzel." PLEASE HELP! This is the continuous experiences I am having with brothers where I am meeting in places surrounded by and related to religion (EID festival, masjid fundraiser, masjid volunteering) and every time they seem to sneak sex in the equation. I really feel like giving up. I feel I have gone about things properly, set boundaries, etc. but they continue to test boundaries.

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