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I spot a few familiar faces here! For those who don’t know me, I’ve been part of another online group where I have been learning patiently from those generous enough to share their insights. Each exchange, each observation, has been a small lesson in the art of growth. Along the way, if I can glean something new and pass on something, that feels like progress. Geographically, I have lived as far north as Alaska to Florida. Japan I call home as I've spent more than two decades there. With work I find myself navigating the layered textures of Europe. As my professional life lies in IT, yet that is merely the lens through which I interact with the world, it shapes certain tendencies but never confines the essence of who I am. I look forward to learning and growing with you all here.
Women’s Fashion Through the Eyes of Gentlemen
I want to get your honest thoughts on what men think about women’s style and clothing choices. (There are no right or wrong) With that said, when you think about what a woman is wearing, what makes an outfit appealing or appropriate in different situations — like at work, a night out, or just casually? I’d love to hear not just what you think, but why. For me, what I choose reflects me personally and how I’m feeling that day. Of course, for a special event like a wedding I am dressed for the occasion but with my own personality reflected. Do you think women should dress more for themselves, for comfort, or to meet others’ expectations? Why? I can tell you that I never dress for someone else’s expectations. I know a lot of you post you OOTD, or other days like church or some other reason. No woman has posted an OOTD yet. I might start….but I would like to know how men perceive what women wear. Please share your thoughts. As a Woman I would love the male perspective and input.
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A quick post. it is its unfair. Women have so many choices! Not only in colours and clothing styles, but also in availability of stores.😢 at least where I live anyway.
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Now that I'm well rested here is the answer you deserved earlier. At work, what tends to stand out positively is polish and intention. Structured pieces, clean lines, and thoughtful color choices communicate competence and confidence. It is not about showing off; it is about showing awareness of the environment and presenting yourself with quiet professionalism. Nails, for example, are something I notice immediately, even if they never comment on it. Whether they are natural, press-on, or professionally done does not matter nearly as much as how well they are maintained. If artificial nails are grown out with a visible gap between the nail and the cuticle, it suggests neglect rather than style. But getting back to clothing 😁 Casually, the most attractive outfits are often the simplest ones that feel authentic. Well-fitting jeans, a flattering top, effortless hair😉 sometimes not so easy. It reads as natural and self-assured. I can not generalize by saying many men, so, I will say, I find this more appealing than highly curated looks because it feels genuine rather than performative. And outside of work, another detail noticed is whether someone dresses for the season. It signals awareness and a bit of practical intelligence. Choosing clothing that fits the weather and setting often looks more put-together than outfits that seem chosen only to show more skin, regardless of the conditions.🙄 Yes, some men find that attractive but that usually attracts other unwanted attention. I feel the truth most men would not say out loud is this: when a woman dresses for herself with awareness of context, it almost always looks best to everyone else anyway. When she feels like herself, it shows. Trying to meet imagined expectations often has the opposite effect and can look uncomfortable or overly calculated. You are right... that clothing reflects how you feel that day. Now here is a detail that many be overlooked by some: the finishing touches. Like the nail comments above.
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Been trying to stay warm while staying stylish. Different combos of tweed jackets and vests as well as camel hair in the traditional camel color and grey. Also a vintage thick Cashmere coat from the 1950s and my black Seal fur ambassador's hat from Sak's 5th avenue made in the U.S.S.R.
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Your collection is exceptionally refined. Each piece balances warmth with timeless style. I love the vintage 1950s thick cashmere coat, it comes together with elegance.
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