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5 contributions to Functional Human Design
Money issues! The 37/40 channel of community ๐Ÿคฏ
Do you ever feel like you over-give and are under-supported? Turns out that's a sacred contract! Gate 40 is all about GIVING resources through will power and provision. It needs rest and appreciation. Gate 37 is all about RECEIVING support through the community, friendship, and family. It needs commitment and recognition. When we over-give, over-deliver in value, it causes the person receiving to feel inadequate or guilty because there wasn't a fair exchange. Entrepreneurship makes this worse. The sea of coaches screaming "OVERDELIVER!" Parenting makes it even more confusing. Children are not to provide for or nurture the emotional wellbeing of their parents. A clean exchange is I give, you give. We rise together! I knew it but couldn't see how I was off! Now, I see!!! Have you experienced this also? I am HUMAN! Not a robot or alien! I have needs! ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ
7 likes โ€ข Oct 3
For me, when my first son was 6-weeks in-utero, I was in the shower and asked, "What is this soul here to teach me?" Quick as a flash and voice from outside of myself (I know the difference between my thoughts and those 'implanted' from an external source), said, "Selflessness." Ain't that the truth! At least until we show them how to claim agency (a progession) and the responsibility that goes with it. I also realised pretty quickly that I wasn't my child's friend, I was foremost their parent, and this has served me, and them, well.
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Hi @Jes Divine, havenโ€™t done their HD because for me it would be meaningless at this stage as I have no idea about my own! ๐Ÿ˜ณ I need to find a way to dig deep into my chart so I know what it means. I have the โ€˜imageโ€™ of the body centres etc but the joining lines and numbers down each side mean nothing to me. Where can I find a way to interpret?
Iโ€™ve spent 25 years raising a familyโ€ฆ and Iโ€™m not heard.ย 
I donโ€™t yell or demand. I ask for help and it doesnโ€™t come, just the minimum. We make plans and nothing happens. Weโ€™ve had countless family meetings. We have unschooled and Iโ€™ve taught them everything I know and thatโ€™s a LOT. I canโ€™t teach personal responsibility. Thatโ€™s an individual journey. I do too much. Iโ€™ve wanted them to have everything, and learn all that I didnโ€™t know, about navigating this wild world. I trust they know. Human design discovered me about five years ago. My 20 years of personal development and deep faith had helped me in my alignment. I know and trust me. Andโ€ฆ I was radically out of alignment in my 37/40. The deals of commitment and growth of resources for my family. My tribe. My people. Iโ€™ve communicated so muchโ€ฆ In 15,000 different ways and Iโ€™m tired. They have all grown in amazing ways! Iโ€™m so proud of them as individuals! Andโ€ฆ the teamwork is greatly lacking. Iโ€™ve expressed my need for teamwork and participation in business. When they were young we had a saying, everyone works, everyone plays!!! We did amazing things together! Now everyone hides in the comfort of their own rooms. My heart hurts. Itโ€™s my time to goโ€ฆ and trust the process. I have faith that everything works out for us. Iโ€™m selling my stuff. Putting my important, favorite items in storage and going on the road. I donโ€™t know where Iโ€™m going, but I know where Iโ€™ve been and I have peace. Itโ€™s time to discover me. ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿฅฐ I'm so fcking excited for the roadtrip!!! I can't wait to HUG YOU!!!
Iโ€™ve spent 25 years raising a familyโ€ฆ and Iโ€™m not heard.ย 
2 likes โ€ข Sep 30
As a parent of 17 & 23yo sons, I can relate, although to their credit, in recent times they've leaned in and are taking much better care of themselves and their spaces. I did have a massive 'crucial conversation' with my eldest back in Nov '24, with 'pitch in or move out' ultimatum. With Sydney being an expensive city, it wouldn't have been hard math for him to work out which side his bread was buttered on! And he took it on the chin and did a 180ยฐ turn around, making our home much more harmonious. You gotta do what you gotta do, for you. ๐Ÿ’ช
Let's Celebrate Heather! Human Hub Highlight!
Oh @Heather Wilson ignites my LOVE for books! The Skoolers Library is built from the books Skoolers credit for success, distilled into lessons to grow communities, businesses, and lives faster. Her projector wisdom is sharp as she reads, summarizes, and embraces the love of learning with helping other better embody the lessons they read. This week we have been learning through The Big Leap, one of my top 50 favorite books! Let's give it up for @Heather Wilson and book lovers everywhere!!! ๐Ÿ“š How has reading assisted in your growth? P.S. Check out the Human Hub in the Classroom to learn how to get your Highlight!
Let's Celebrate Heather! Human Hub Highlight!
1 like โ€ข Sep 23
As someone I respect once noted, if a person takes 20 years to learn something, then shares it via writing a book, I get to learn from their 20 years in a few hours of reading! I wasn't a 'reader' (other than some fiction) until 2001, the year after my mentor died, and I noticed he had an amazing eclectic library, so I randomly pulled a book off his bookshelf and started reading it. And I couldn't put it down, as it 'spoke' to me and made sense. I now have an amazing library myself, and have learned sooooo much from other's work that it's become the foundation of who I am. Interestingly, when I read a book about a subject, then another on a similar topic but a different author, maybe from another time or country, yet there are common threads through it all, this helps me conclude that there are some universal truths. Invaluable!
OMG! Live on Skool in 1080p!
Today was a whole experience! We learned to use Skool live AND had vulnerable, beautiful conversation. Seriously, y'all are the BEST! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿฅณ What do y'all think of the new feature? Thank you for joining us! @Jess Lloyd @Jessica Clish @Alena Diaz @Dr. Tracy Davis @Sarah Hankins @Tasha Tanks @Blu In man @Diana Frank @Amanda Bennallack @John Broadbent @Truth Richardson @Barbara Harris @Reid Richardson @Carole Jean Whittington @Pumehana Palmer and I saw @Lennox Hankins sneak in for a minute!
OMG! Live on Skool in 1080p!
1 like โ€ข Sep 11
A different experience to Zoom, but still good! Content and presenters make the quality, not the platform, and you guys delivered in spades!
1 like โ€ข Sep 11
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Wish I knew what it all meant! ๐Ÿง
Hey, here's my chart: Not sure what the 'key' parts are so I look forward to learning
Wish I knew what it all meant! ๐Ÿง
2 likes โ€ข Sep 11
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@Jes Divine
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