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Weekly RMRS Member Shoutouts 👔
Gentlemen, here are a few standout posts from the RMRS community this week. 👏 Big shoutout to @Brian McGuire for “The Reunion” and the personal story of gathering with family from Switzerland for the 85th Tontz family reunion. It gave the community a meaningful look at the family moments that sit alongside classic menswear. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/the-reunion 👏 Shoutout to @Jeffrey Plotka for “The Closet Is Changing Seasons!” and a practical, relatable look at rotating a wardrobe as fall arrives. It sparked a timely conversation around seasonal dressing and making the most of what is already in the closet. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/the-closet-is-changing-seasons 👏 Shoutout to @Chad Smith for “Japan Trip days 13 & 14 - The Neon Lights of Osaka and a Quiet Day in Kochi” and a vivid update from his travels. The contrast between energetic Osaka and a quieter day in Kochi made for a great shared travel story. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/japan-trip-days-13-14-the-neon-lights-of-osaka-and-a-quiet-day-in-kochi 👏 Shoutout to @Alan Dormire for “10/3/2026 a Visit to the Bluegrass Shop” and sharing an experience rooted in personal style and craftsmanship. Posts like this bring members into the real-world places and traditions behind the things we enjoy. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/1032026-a-visit-to-the-bluegrass-shop 👏 Shoutout to @Anthony Buntyn for “For Those Interested New Gentlemen Of Faith Podcast Available Tomorrow” and helping connect members with a resource centered on faith and gentlemanly living. It added another thoughtful avenue for the community to explore.
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Please do keep this up, @Antonio Centeno. It is very rewarding to see a summary of the great posts our brothers put out there each week. Great job, to the regular hand as well! There were some truly great posts this week.
Casually Business Casual
Business Casual used to basically mean sport coat, dress shirt no tie. Today this definition is incredibly nebulous since the vast majority of guys are not wearing ties these days. I believe the key to developing a suitable personal style of business casual involves three things 1) be aware of your environment. The three Fs Antonio speaks about Fit, Fabric and Function all apply here but the main focus is Function. In other words based upon the venue and culture at the event-what one wears when and where to a specific function should be understood by every gentleman attending. 2) intentionality. Be Intentional with your ensemble. For me simply not wearing a tie to the luncheon I attended today might be enough to be business casual-but to me, showing up with a blue OCBD or point color dress shirt, Navy blazer, and grey slacks would feel like I simply ran out of the house and forgot to put on a tie. Consequently to go to a community Luncheon my wife puts on at our church each month then returning to the house to complete paper work -felt like a perfect day to go Business casual. With temps slipping back up to the low 90’s I grabbed a brushed cotton burgundy blazer Orvis duck cloth khaki jeans-cut trousers, Orvis cut and sewn shirt, silk P Square to tie in the colors of the pants and burgundy coat , Indiana Jones Alden Boots and my Borealis dive watch. 3) Consistency, Each of us differ based upon our respective personal style and career. When @Richard Pollock wears a Chambray blue shirt with chinos or jeans that in my line of work too might be too casual to be even be business casual. Contrastingly for Richard, when he is going out on sites his ensemble may be comparatively the same as me wearing a three piece suit if attending a meeting with a group of trust attorneys and a client. He is dressed in his full armor like I in a coat and tie am dressed in mine. (Maybe adding a sports coat over his great Chambray shirt is better comparison to my trust attorney example🤷🏻). The details are less important than the consistency. Richard’s customers and guys he interacts with have become used to him looking sharp and from what I gather when he orders his company logo gear, and chooses classic fabrics, he is possibly the best dressed guy in his meetings. (9 out of 10 times I am as well for my meetings). Point is. Each of us are in our respective business attire. It’s how we interact in our roles-not the garments themselves. So to reiterate his professional attire differs from mine but serves the same function and each of us are pretty consistent. So for me today’s outfit for a business /community luncheon is pretty casual based upon how folks consistently see me through out the day-day after day. (I still had a few million dollars of clients assets in that room😉). This is the consistency part.
Casually Business Casual
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What a great summary. To think in all of this detail each day must take you hours! I know: it’s just known at this point.
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@Brian McGuire lol - that might be have explained the typo I found! Or that it’s just a similar name/word…
OOTD October 8th
Twillory light blue performance dress shirt over Grey Vertx pants. Black Anson belt with silver buckle and black Tecovas boots. Invicta Dive watch Tom Ford oud wood for today. Lots of closed door meetings. About 4 hours worth. Also dealing with open records. One person made 16 open records requests in two days. Ridiculous and totally unnecessary. Just because you have free time in your life you doesn't mean to harass anyone. These are not 1 item requests. Paragraphs of wanting documents of videos. All of which are at least 10 months old.
OOTD October 8th
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You’re looking great, as always. Unfortunately, with every freedom comes someone who thinks abusing it is either their right (vs. the responsibility of using it appropriately) or is funny (and they are just idiots).
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@William Feldtmose I must say, that I have truly benefited from having you in this group. Whereas I hope it is obvious that I have never been anti-police, I am a liberal with a basal tendency to have a harder time seeing their perspectives. You have given the day to day of police officers a face by which my understanding of your frustrations with certain aspects of the public, and also your job, take on a reality that humanizes it all much more than ever before. Thank you, my friend.
Fedora of the day
Today is my first public outing with my 1950 Pennys Marathon wide brim Fedora. This is the classic 1940s style before the onset of stingy brims later in the decade. In pristine condition for a 76 year old fedora paired with my Harris Tweed houndstooth overcoat from the 1960s. This entire ensemble, including the wearer, is vintage.
Fedora of the day
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Love the look and the exit comment!
OOTD-CW - 8 October 2026
I picked up several items from the tailor last night. In trying them on, I recognized that the level of fit across items is really starting to come together. Two items I picked up were new MTO/MTM trousers from Proper Cloth. I have a few of their dress shirts but heard good reviews on their other tailored items so I wanted to give them a go given that they had a Labor Day sale. I got a pair of stone (off-white) chinos and light gray wool slacks. The fit on these were great, except that the legs were too short. However, they left plenty of extra fabric, so the tailor had lots of extra fabric to bring down the break, even for a pair with a cuff included from Proper Cloth. I also added suspender buttons to both slacks, which was an odd item to not allow me to select when ordering from Proper Cloth. The fabric in the gray trousers is a rich weave in both texture and shade. I have included a close up of the fabric. Although the fabric is the biggest variant for overall cost, the total cost for their MTO/MTM trousers during the sale with VBC tropical fresco wool was just under $300. The fit and feel belay that price point. • Sports Jacket — BOJ-012 (Haspel): A lightweight tan-and-cream cotton seersucker jacket with mid-gray accents, partial lining, notched lapels, and a two-button front. The breathable texture provides structure without excessive warmth and anchors the light, summery palette. • Shirt — DS-051 (Savile Row Company): A blue-and-white puppytooth cotton Winchester shirt with white cutaway collar, French cuffs, and cream buttons. Tagged 16–35.5 after sleeve alteration; it uses 2.5-inch collar stays. • Undershirt — US-003 (Pro Club): A heavyweight white cotton crew-neck undershirt in XL with a roomy fit and near-elbow sleeves. Its opacity provides a clean foundation beneath the patterned shirt. • Trousers — SL-028 (Proper Cloth): Made-to-measure light-gray VBC tropical-fresco wool trousers with inward pleats, side tabs, and 1.25-inch cuffs. The open weave and matte finish complement the seersucker jacket while remaining comfortable in warm weather.
OOTD-CW - 8 October 2026
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@William Feldtmose Thank you!
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@Brian McGuire Thank you! It’s made me keel my eye out for other seersucker beyond throw white with blue stripe, and that’s opened my eyes to enjoying fabrics in a pattern that doesn’t fit expectations, such as a camel hair jacket I recently procured.
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Dr. Jason Cole
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PhD clinical psychology. Owner of P3 Research, a company specializing in PRO/COA consulting for bio/pharma. Dressing well is part of my persona.

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