I used to think kindness would be returned, and that love would make people show up right. But life taught me something different. People will be who they are, no matter how good you are to them.And honestly? That’s why protecting your peace matters more than chasing connections that confuse you. We’re living in a time where mixed signals are normal, honesty is rare, and too many people want access without accountability.I know what I bring to the table. I’m just done sitting at tables where consistency, clarity, and real communication aren’t on the menu. Thank y’all for being here! Hilarie ❤️

Started day 1/90 with the attachment style test. One of my goals this year was to heal my attachment style though I didn’t know how to do it. I took the test assuming I might cry..and instead came out literally clapping for myself. The work I’ve been doing intentionally on my own has me leading with secure over anxious for the first time in my life 🥹 I am SO excited to continue to personal growth!!!! What you guys have built is INCREDIBLE!!!

Monday, I started the week off strong (a Copenhagen plank will humble you) and had an amazing workout and day. Today, my brain was like uh no! I still did my workout, my mind won today. 😬 We are all in this together and we need to celebrate the wins, but don’t hide in the dark alone in tough times. ❤️

but really... this video helped me fix my nervous system.

Good evening all! I don’t usually post but I should get in the habit more of posting on here, but I wanted to share this quote from a book I’ve started reading called Atomic Habits by James Clear. This quote has really stuck out to me since starting to read this book: “In order to improve for good, you need to solve problems at the systems level. Fix the inputs and the outputs will fix themselves.” Your mind is more powerful than you think! A positive mindset yields positive behavior/results and affirmations are a big key to yielding a positive mindset. We live in a world today where there are a lot of negative things going on and it’s hard not to see that especially with social media being such a big presence nowadays, but making a change to be positive in a world full of negative makes all the difference! Even when you feel like everything is going wrong, there is one positive thing to remember: You woke up today. To wake up is a privilege because there are people who do not get that privilege. Just know that you are LOVED, you are ENOUGH, you have PURPOSE, and there is no one better to be than yourself. God loves you and made you in His perfect image! Stay positive and stay blessed 🤎