That’s the easiest story to tell when something inside you starts to grind.
Blame gives relief. It gives you a villain. It keeps the spotlight off you.
But friction is rarely just about what someone else did. More often, it’s about what you’re tolerating. What you’re avoiding. What no longer fits who you are.
Blame is a reflex.Clarity is a choice.
Before you point outward, pause.
What is the friction actually trying to show you?
Do you agree — or do you think blame is sometimes the right starting point? I’d value your thoughts.