Nothing Works the First Time
I was watching a video earlier this morning of a man talking to a group of people, most likely a seminar of somekind, and he tells them that nothing works on the first time you do it. I mean it does, but not perfectly. We strive for "perfection", yet short of getting a 100 on a test in school, perfection is about its pursuit. When we first tried to tie our shoes, did we get it on the first try? What about pararllel parking? Reading out loud in class, the first time we talked to someone we wanted to date, painting, playing an instrument or new sport? Some maybe able to say yes, we did one or some or for those that are naturally gifted or want us to think that way, they say yes to all. But that is not reality. Don't pressure yourself to "get it right" on the first try as you've never done the thing that you are trying to do before! Give yourself some grace as well as time to develop, just don't throw the towel in when you haven't even really begun.