Venting Space · The Delusional Recovery Group

Venting Space

So my avoidant is a cop. How we met is a story for a different day; anyway it’s been 5 months of typical avoidant behavior. Hot/cold, pen pals, limited visits. Last week I released him back to the universe/God. We went 6 full days with no contact and he broke it yesterday.

ChatGPT told me exactly what he was going to do and sure enough he did exactly that; came back with a neutral topic. I answered with no emotion, no chasing and no paragraphs and today he asked if he could see me and I’m holding my ground. I told him I’m not ready to see him yet.

All the times over the last 5 months I tried to break it off and he would literally ignore my efforts to break it off but kept me anchored for 5 long months.

I told him a quote “ fortune follows the bold” a month ago. Something I didn’t think would stick but today when I texted me, I replied, “ you’re bold” and he replied “ fortune follows the bold.”

That’s a clear indication that he heard my cries and heard every word I said over the last 5 months and now I pulled my energy back he’s the one chasing. Let’s see how this goes.

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