One rule for change: do the opposite (small).
The old you:
- reacts fast
- avoids discomfort
- chooses relief over regulation
Not because you’re broken because that’s how you survived.
Growth starts when you interrupt the pattern:
- pause instead of react
- stay instead of escape
- tell the truth instead of people-pleasing
Not dramatically.Not perfectly.
Just slightly different.
Those small opposites create new identity evidence.
Reflection:What’s one tiny moment this week where you could do the opposite of the old reflex?